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Today we visit our latest thoughts and musings on our Asian-American identity. We talk about the latest trends in boba and what these changes may signal. We discuss whether our Asian identity can be seen in the choices we make around mealtime, whether its utensil selections or our carb of choice. We chat about the complex feelings we feel when international perception of our mother country changes.
Today we talk about the multitude of feelings we have about babies - everything from watching people our age have kids, to understanding baby milestones, to our personal apprehensions on becoming parents.
Today we talk about the various archetypes of couples that we have seen and dissect the different factors that help a couple form their own identity! We talk about how our own couple identities can change depending on the setting that we are in, and explore relationship routines like setting a game plan or doing post-game analysis!
It’s a big year for all of us ‘96 babies, which means our calendars are filled with lots of birthday parties! We talk about how birthday parties look now (in our late twenties/early thirties) vs. how they looked when we were younger. We also talk about various factors that we consider when throwing a birthday party, from scheduling to cost to activities!
Today we talk about our personal theories on what differentiates only children from people with siblings - from difficulty with sharing, to relationships with parents, to…a general attitude towards life (?!) We also chat about how only child characteristics look different from younger child or older child characteristics specifically. Shoutout to the other only children out there!!!
It’s been a couple years since we’ve done a full-fledged wedding episode, and we’re now much more experienced wedding-attenders than before! Today we chat about how our mindset of attending weddings has changed over the past few years, discuss our favorite parts of the wedding, and dissect small things we do to be a supportive guest at a wedding!
It’s a big year for us here at Eat Your Crust…2026 is the year we are both turning 30. Today Crystal sits Jeesoo down and tells her all about her experience being 30 so far, and all of the changes and fears that come with unlocking a new decade!
Today we talk about how we maintain momentum in our daily lives - from things that make it easier to build up positive momentum, to ways to break lulls in busy/unmotivated periods in our lives. We chat about the different ways we view positive energy and factors that affect us each differently.
Today we chat about work trips - from local shindigs to international events! We talk about ways we keep ourselves sane and the importance of alone time on these trips. We also talk about staying out late and bringing an SO along to a trip!
Today we talk about the experience of relationship building with family friends in our parents' generation! We chat about our go-to conversation topics, how we work around any awkwardness or distance that we feel, and explore language barriers we've felt previously. We hypothesize over when the prime family friend era is and theorize about conversations family friend parents may have!
Today we sit down to talk about a spicy emotion…jealousy! We discuss how often we feel jealous and dive into specific things that can trigger it. We also talk about ways to process and handle our feelings of envy!
Today we define what it means to have wholesome fun and explore how the way we have fun has changed over the years - from outdoor competitions, to sports, to book clubs and board games! We also talk about how these types of hobbies give us a sense of fulfillment and can help foster new or deepen existing relationships.
Today we sit down and try to figure out what our ‘type’ is, for romantic relationships, personal friendships, and work connections! We try to describe each others’ types because sometimes…it’s easier for a third party to clock the pattern ;-) We also try to dissect our personal values and needs based on the common factors we see in our close connections!
We’re back with season 8! Did you miss us? Today we sit down to catch up over our thoughts for this new year and speculate on how 2026, Year of the Fire Horse, will be for us two Fire Rats.
Today we close out season 7 by reflecting on the past year and exploring the various ways we wind down in the holidays. We chat about takeaways from this year that we're carrying into 2026.This will be our last episode of 2025 - we'll be back mid-January with a brand new season! Happy Holidays & Merry Crustmas, thank you for joining us for another year of Eat Your Crust ♥
Today we talk about things we do at work outside of our typical job scope - including attending happy hours, helping to plan events or socials, and taking classes or optional programs to expand our expertise! We chat about ways to make work life feel more dynamic and catered to our personal interests and goals.
Today our friends Tiffy and Cindy join us to talk about Girls Nights! We chat about whether we prefer a cozy night in or wild night out with our girlfriends, and discuss some of our favorite activities. We also chat about expectations of meeting or incorporating new people into girls nights, and reminisce about some of our favorite memories together!
Today we discuss some of our personal quirks and habits! We talk about random habits we never realized we had until someone else pointed it out, or someone else did the opposite. We chat through habits we’ve picked up or broken due to our SO.
Today our friends Katie and Jimin join us to talk about the infamous fantasy punishment…999, aka the punishment of consuming 9 hot dogs and 9 beers in the span of 9 innings. Tune into find out what strategies they employed to do their 999 punishment, as well as tips and tricks for (potential) future 999 attempts.
Today we discuss how we approach conflict in our relationships. We try to see if any of our habits trace back to what we learned from our parents, and dissect any learnings from past mistakes.
Today our friends Aileen and Harpreet join us to talk about bringing your social A game to events and hangouts! We chat about what kind of events make us feel the most comfortable socially, and dive into any tips or tricks that help to set the vibes of an event. We discuss whether we actively try to set the vibes or whether we passively enhance it.
Today we talk about how we decatastrophizing when we feel overwhelmed or anxious. We dive into some of our most common cycles and coping mechanisms, as well as ways we've learned to break out of our negative thought loops and combat our bad habits. We also evaluate how often our catastrophes tend to happen & how intense they can be.
Today, Kaila Yu, author of the memoir Fetishized joins us to explore how Asian women are portrayed in the media. We discuss the impact of books like Memoirs of a Geisha and raunch culture from the 2000s, and talk about how much of the media we consume is internalized as women. We chat about how to ground ourselves in self-love instead of seeking validation externally.Find Kaila on Instagram @kailayu or on her website kailayu.com. Her book, Fetishized: A Reckoning with Yellow Fever, Feminism, and Beauty will be out in all stores on August 19th!
Today we put our friend caps on and think about what we would do in sticky situations with our friends. We talk about how we would react if our friend confessed they were cheating, or if a good friend started hanging out with our opp, and other tough situations!
Today our friend Sunny joins us to talk about food in the household! We reminisce on what eating at home looked like in our childhood and any food-related habits our parents instilled into us. We explore how our families handled snacks, fast food, and sharing, as well as any phases our households went through in our eating habits.
Today our friend Jimmy joins us to discuss the various ways we approach our meetings - from pre-meeting chitchat to miming reactions on camera. We talk about taking on roles in meetings, like being a note taker or the jokester.
Today we talk about our hormonal health and periods! We discuss the process of going off a long-term birth control and getting reintroduced to the hormonal cycle. We talk about how to work with the different phases of the cycle and changes we notice in our body and mood. We also share what we personally like to do during our periods.
Today we talk about how we balance our personal independence with our romantic relationships! We chat about our ideal balance of solo time vs. time with our partners. We also talk about signs that alert us that we need more independence when in a relationship.
Today we chat about our latest dreams and ambitions and explore how they have changed over the years. We chat about the various pressures around dreams, whether it's having The Dream or comparing our dreams to what we see on LinkedIn or those around us. We discuss ways to keep the D&A (dreams & ambitions) alive in the day to day!
Today our friend Jessica joins us to talk about one of our favorite pastimes…karaoke! We discuss the optimal karaoke set-up and dissect what draws us in. We dive into hidden etiquette and tips and tricks we’ve learned over the years to curate a *perfect* karaoke session. We also confess our personal karaoke sins!
Today we sit down and talk about big fears that we have - from heights, to natural disasters, airplane turbulence, and more! We chat through things make our fears better or worse. We also discuss a couple of conspiracy theories *puts on tinfoil hat* and get a little silly with it!
Today our friends Brian & Jonathan join us to talk about the gray area of our social network - people we kind of know, kind of don’t! We dive into the nuances of interacting with people in this category and how we handle the potential awkward situations that can arise. We also explore experiences of converting mutual friends/semi strangers into friends!
Today we discuss one of our favorite activities ever - rotting (aka, a very deep relaxing session)! We talk about qualities a proper rot session must have for us personally, and explore whether we are able to fully ‘rot’ with other people. We describe how many rot sessions we need a month to feel fully rested.
Today Angela Lin from Real You Mandarin joins us to explore our relationship with our mother tongue and dissect how language can play a role in expressing our personal identities. We also talk about how language abilities can impact family dynamics and learnings we've had in recent years to bridge that gap in our relationship with our parents.Find Angela on Instagram @RealYouMandarin, Tiktok @RealYouMandarin, and her podcast But Where Are You Really From? Pod anywhere you get your podcasts!Check out realyoumandarin.com and use eatyourcrust10 for a discount! Expires on April 10.
Today we discuss the unspoken rules around PTO and what our personal PTO policies are! We chat about how frequent is too frequent, how many days is too many, and other personal restrictions we try to guide our vacations by. We also explore best practices we’ve picked up to ensure that our PTO goes as smoothly as possible.
Today Lindsay Kami from You Found Her Pod joins us to discuss how to convert the energy behind negative self-talk into positive momentum for our dreams and ambitions. We talk about the journey we have taken to unlearn negative self-talk and embrace more self-love in our late twenties. We talk about ways to be more positive in our daily life.Find Lindsay on Instagram @lindsaykami, Tiktok @lindsaykami, and her podcast You Found Her Pod anywhere you get your podcasts!
We’re back!!! We kick off Season 7 today by sharing our new year’s musings & resolutions for the 2025. We also announce a new update to our schedule - we will be changing our upload schedule from weekly episodes to bi-weekly episodes (every other week) due to personal & professional obligations. Excited to be back for a brand new season and thank you for continuing to tune in to Eat Your Crust ❤︎
Today we talk about going to our 10 Year High School Reunions! We talk about what it was like to plan and throw the reunion, and describe the vibes of the reunion as observed by the host and by a plus one! We discuss the thoughts and anxieties we had before attending, and chat about our parents’ experiences going to their reunions.
Today our friend Balmeet joins us to chat about what unplugging looks like for us! We discuss how chronically online we are and try to dissect when our digital habits began. We explore the various ways we over-consume media/technology and identify signs that we need to take a step back. We chat about things that incentivize us to unplug and the benefits that follow!
Today we dive into recent moments in our life that made us think…damn, we really are adults! More often than not, these are small habits or small incidents that help us take a step back and look at the progress we’ve made in our adulthood.
Today we explore the various tips & tricks we’ve picked up from former bosses - from technical skills, to work philosophies, and most importantly, soft skills that we carry with us through this day! We also talk about the different ways you can learn from a boss, whether it’s through direct guidance, or lack thereof.
Today our friend Yane joins us to chat about our personal thoughts on Asian American Identity. We wonder about what compels us to microcategorize ourselves within the community (ex. Raver Asians, Valorant Asians, etc.). We chat about how cultural context can change the way we view things like cultural representation.
Today we chat about parents and how they factor into relationships! We talk about any tips or tricks we have for meeting your SO’s parents. We chat about our personal viewpoints on parent involvement in relationships and navigating through potential differences in values or culture. We dive into our experiences of introducing our own parents to our SO’s parents.
Today our friend Hannah joins us to chat about her experience of being a teacher! We discuss the expectations and challenges of being a teacher and how things like age and social media factor into the experience. We dive into the various methods teachers come up with to connect with their students.
Today our friend Helen joins to talk about the values of friendship! We chat about what makes a good friend and a bad friend, and explore any friendship lessons we’ve learned over the years. We explore what it looks like to set boundaries within friendships. We take a peek at how friendship in our late twenties differ from friendship in our student life!
Today we talk about neighbors - from the challenge of befriending neighbors, asking neighbors for favors, and iconic neighbors that we remember from our childhood homes. We explore the difference between different housing types and the neighbors that come with them. We also talk about our future neighbor goals!
Today our friend Destin joins us to chat about big age gaps between siblings! We explore how age can make a big impact on the sibling dynamic. We also discuss in what ways the generation gap can manifest.
Today our friends Jimin & James join us to chat about sports! We talk about Fantasy Football and the highs and lows that come with it. We dive into what kind of sports fans we are and what types of athletes we root for. We do some analysis on who we view as the athlete G.O.A.T.s of all time, athletically and aesthetically ;-)
Today we catch each other up on our latest crises! We contemplate about making big decisions in life that affect other people. We discuss the struggles of socializing at work as a newcomer. We chat about playing Dress to Impress on Roblox.
Today our friend Jimmy joins us to chat about life in our late twenties. We chat ways our current lifestyle looks different from our early twenties. We discuss key conscious decisions we made as we evolved in age. We dive into how we currently feel about life and explore our feelings about the future.
Today our friend Michelle joins us to chat about building up a sense of community! We discuss what kind of factors help us feel more connected in our communities and our past successes and failures. We chat about hosting and attending community events and the responsibilities that come with them!
Sometimes we're just in our hater era...Today we discuss how we deal with feelings of dislike! We chat about what dislike looks/feels like for us and whether we are good at hiding it. We talk about overturning first impressions & feeling obligated to hate people because of our friends. We also dive into how insecurities/emotions can impact our judgment of others!
Today our friend Anne joins us to chat about Korean reality TV shows! We gush about our favorite shows and what factors make them juicy. We dive into the types of characters we tend to root for, and what types of characters we would be. We also discuss the fun of scouring forums for the gossip.
Today our friend Eugene joins us to chat about sticky situations! We discuss the awkwardness of bumping into your ex & how we would personally approach it. We chat about jealousy in relationships and our personal boundaries. We talk about the perilla leaf situation & the American variation, the jacket situation!
Today we discuss the concept of job limbo, and its causes & symptoms! We chat about signs of burnout. We also dive into ways to convert job limbo into positive momentum for our work or career.
Today our friend Tanaya joins us to chat about our obsessions! We explore our peak fangirl eras and analyze what draws us to certain celebrities or characters. We chat about the world of fan fiction & sharing our obsessions with the people around us.
Today our friend Shangway joins us to chat about our hobbies! We discuss our 'hobby portfolio' of energizing, relaxing, social, or solitary hobbies. We chat about reaching flow state and getting into the zone.
Today our friend Sarah joins us to talk about sisterhood! We discuss the pains and gains of growing up with an older sister and how that impacts childhood, family life, and hobbies. We chat about how relationships with siblings morph and change as we go through life experiences. We dive into the complexities of sisterhood and how it would look different if genders and/or roles were different!
Today we dive into the concept of ‘medium friends’, which is the gray area of friendship between bestie and acquaintance. We discuss our thoughts on how to best navigate this ambiguity and overcome feelings of insecurity or guilt in friendship. We chat about the demotion of promotion of friends and how it feels to conceptualize friendship in this way. Link to the NYTimes article that inspired this episode: https://www.nytimes.com/2024/06/22/well/the-vexing-problem-of-the-medium-friend.html
Today our friend Aileen joins us to talk about curating your personal style! We chat about how we view fashion & what kind of things we look for when we shop. We discuss cyclical fashion trends and dive into theories on why the Y2K/vintage styles are so trendy right now. We delve into the world of thrifting and explore reasons behind its popularity!
Today we do a deep dive on all of the Gen Z words/slang we've discussed in the last year and a half! We host a mini Superlatives section for these words and reevaluate the success/usability of the words. We also share some of our latest life updates & mini-crises we've been going through in recent days!
Today our friends Mel & Sunny join us to talk about female archetypes, from the 'it girl' and beyond! We chat about what qualities 'it girl's have, and other characterizations of women we see online or in the media. We discuss the reason behind why there are so many micro-labels for young women. We explore the pressures/joys of keeping up with what's popular and how this has changed throughout our twenties.
Today our friend Kate joins us to talk about double dates! We talk about what makes a hangout a ‘double date’, beyond just two couples hanging out. We chat about the specific environment double dates curate. We discuss double dates as a way to introduce friends to partners!
Today we discuss how we keep up with family in our adulthood. We chat about deciding what to communicate with our parents after we moved out. We talk about determining how often to visit our parents and what factors go into the decision. We also explore new responsibilities we have grown into in the family and how it makes us feel.
Today our friend Tiffany joins us to chat about going through tough times! We discuss what we tend to do in tough times and how we use our personal experiences to better support our friends. We brainstorm things we try not to say to friends who are feeling down.
Today we discuss the never-ending challenge of making decisions! We talk about how we approach decision-making in our personal lives vs. in group settings. We chat about choices that have become harder or easier with age.
Today our friend Abhi joins us to chat about awkward restaurant experiences! We talk about the pressure of ordering at restaurants. We discuss our comfort levels when it comes to critiquing food or ordering wine. We chat about eyeing other people’s food and wanting to ordering the same thing!
Today we muse about honeymoons! We chat about the difference between planning for a honeymoon and planning for a regular vacation. We discuss the struggles of asking for honeymoon privileges at the hotel check-in counters. We talk about small ways to make a honeymoon feel more special!
Our podcast turns 5!!! Today we reflect on the last 5 years of working on Eat Your Crust together. We dive into the ways we've streamlined our behind-the-scenes processes to make planning ahead easier. We chat about cool & unexpected effects of having a podcast and how it helps us feel more connected to our friends!
Today our friend Harpreet joins us to talk about networking! We discuss the connotation around the term 'networking' & reminisce about job fairs we went to in college. We chat about building connections with people and being comfortable reaching out to people for favors. We discuss shedding our networking anxiety!
Today we sit down and spill our hearts out about the quarter life crises we've recently been having! We chat about dealing with newfound autonomy in our lives and learning to understand what we want to do. We discuss the feeling of being chased by obligations and becoming paralyzed from stress. We muse about additional random learnings from Q1 of this year!
Today our friend Jessica joins us to talk about the 'boring' side of adulting! We discuss tackling life admin tasks like paperwork, appointments, and taxes. We chat about navigating healthcare systems & grasping at random metrics to find a 'good' doctor. We explore things that make us feel motivated to do these tasks!
Today our friends Jane & Cindy join us to talk about situationships! We attempt to define the term & try to decode what makes a ‘situationship’ different from a ‘fling’ or casual dating. We discuss the pros & cons of situationships and chat about boundary-setting for both ourselves and our partners. We chat about lessons we’ve learned from our personal experiences!
Today we chat about partying responsibly in our late twenties! We chat about tips to check in with yourself on a night out. We share signs from the night that point to a guaranteed hangover the next day. We talk about preventative measures to make sure the partying stays healthy, fun, and hangover-free!
Today our friend Jonathan joins us to talk about mixing friend groups! We discuss how to vibe check which friend groups would mix well & how to set up friend groups for success during mixed hangouts. We chat about plus one etiquette and explore methods we use to make our guest feel more comfortable. We dive into our internal anxieties on why mixing friend groups can sometimes feel awkward!
Today our friend Ai joins us to talk about self-esteem and confidence! We explore how both things play in a role in our daily lives, from self-perception to decision-making. We talk about how age impacts our relationship with ourselves. We discuss the ways we personally try to improve our confidence.
Today we discuss the differences in perspective that we have compared to our parents! We explore how the generational gap impacts our attitude towards risktaking, and dive into the different thoughts we have about friendship, relationships, careers, and family life.
Today our friend Brian joins us to talk about outbursts! We discuss when and where we tend to have emotional build-up and what our outbursts look like. We talk about the nuance of emotions and try to identify what feelings specifically make us outburst-prone. We chat about managing our emotions in our late twenties and how it looks different from the way we dealt with emotions in our earlier years!
Today we talk about all things remote work! We discuss our experiences working while traveling in different cities. We talk about working on the go - especially in cars or airports. We chat about creeping on our coworkers backgrounds & the types of equipment we like to have while we work.
Today we talk about BIRTHDAYS!!! We discuss memorable birthday parties from our childhood, whether they were our own, our parents’, or our friends’. We chat about things we do to celebrate our parents’ birthdays in our adulthood.
Today we talk about how art imitates life, and life imitates art with two very talented LA film makers! Jason Poon & Jeff Wu (aka Mood Infinite from POPeye Media) join us to talk about their journeys from making anime music videos to becoming full-fledged directors for exciting music videos. We chat about taking emotional moments from the day-to-day and translating that into content. We discuss the subjectivity of experiences and explore how people look back on and learn from romantic relationships.Check out Jason & Jeff’s new music video, ‘No Clouds in My Summer’, which is dropping on the WongFu Productions youtube channel today!Check out Jason & Jeff’s socials below:@jason.hueming.poon, @hueming__, and YouTube @jasonpoon_@POPeyemedia.la
Today we talk about Valentine’s Day! Our friend Daniel joins us to chat about Valentine’s Day cards from our youth and how we celebrated the day in our families. We talk about celebrating with our SOs this year through dinners & presents. We explore how love shows through in our relationships in our day life, not just on Valentine’s Day!
Today we discuss our current state of mind and chat about our feelings. We discuss the feeling of isolation in suburbia, especially in the winter. We chat about our newfound thoughts on maturity and ‘acting our age’ in our late twenties. We talk about jury duty & the jury selection process.
The girls are back!!! Today we discuss the new themes and eras we envision for ourselves in 2024. We chat about feeling reflective and how 2024 feels different from 2023 so far.
A fitting topic for the last episode of the season…today we talk about the Irish Exit! We discuss when the Irish Exit is appropriate and whether the benefits of the Irish Exit intrigue us. We talk about times where we’ve tried to Irish Exit or times we’ve seen people successfully pull it off.Thank you all very very much for enjoying this season of Eat Your Crust podcast. We will be back in late Jan 2024 with a brand new season so stay tuned for more episodes in the new year! Happy Holidays everyone!
Today we dive into things that make us feel insecure at work! We discuss our personal worries and how we deal with things like comparison and feelings of not being 'enough'. We talk about impostor syndrome and what it means to feel 'certain' in a job or a career path. We talk about how we combat these feelings of self-doubt - and also discuss other silly work insecurities! Join us as we get vulnerable with y'all about our feelings :)
Today we dive into how we define close friendships. We discuss how our definition has changed over the years and try to pinpoint what our "litmus test" for closeness is. This episode goes out to all of our close friends who we love and deeply appreciate!
Today our friend Jeffrey joins us to talk about dealing with change - both voluntary & involuntary! We discuss what kind of things in our daily lives signal to us that we need to switch up our routine. We also talk about how change doesn't have to be so drastic or emotionally deep to be effective. We discuss managing our reactions to involuntary change and learning to accept new things into our lives.
Today we talk about moments where we still feel like a kid! We discuss what kind of internal and external factors impact our internal age clock. We talk about the way our thoughts & priorities have changed from our childhood. We chat about the concept of celebrities getting “stuck” at the age they became famous and see if there’s any relation to our personal lives.
Today our friends Jimmy & Eddy join us again to talk about all things breakup-related! We discuss what the various side effects are of breakups and how they can push us in certain ways. We talk about whether there's a polite way to go about a breakup on social media. We chat about the different post-breakup regrets we've experienced and how we look back on those periods now! If you haven't caught the first part of this 2-part series tune into our previous episode, The Aftermath of Breakups (part 1)!
Today our friends Eddy & Jimmy join us to talk about breakups! We talk about how we personally like to handle our breakups (blocking/muting people on social media, deleting/keeping photos, etc.). We discuss whether a truly mutual breakup exists, and whether every breakup has a winner/loser. We chat about whether exes can stay friends -- and more juicy details! Note: this will be a 2-part series so stay tuned for next week's episode!
Today we unpack the concept of being a "Pick Me"! We reflect on whether we have had Pick Me tendencies in the past, and discuss what kind of factors could have contributed to this attitude. We also talk about whether we've seen this kind of behavior in our adulthood.
Today our friend Kate joins us to talk about meeting new people! We go through how to navigate the weirdness of introductions, and talk about our go-to methods to make conversations with new people less awkward.
Today our friend Destin joins us to talk about his journey of becoming a tattoo artist! We talk about the deliberation behind the art and how a tattooist comes to terms with the permanence of their work. We talk about how tattooing extends beyond the art but also requires customer service kills and social media skills. We also talk about our own tattoo experiences, as well as the qualities an ‘ideal tattoo receiver’ would have!Follow Destin @dusty.butter
In honor of the upcoming Mid-Autumn Festival (aka Mooncake Festival, aka Chuseok), today we talk about how much we have been leaning into our culture. We discuss the ups and downs we've had about feeling pride in our heritage. We also talk about thoughts on carrying out our traditions in our lifestyle.
Today our friend Jen joins us to talk about girls trips! We discuss the magic of girls trips and how they seem to bring out positive energy. We chat about crazy stories we've encountered in the past. We also talk about how going on girls trips with women we don't know super well can bode well for new budding friendships!
Today our friend Camille joins us to talk about the art of journaling! We talk about the various purposes of journaling, such as documentation, productivity, or emotional therapy. We discuss how journaling exists in many forms beyond just the traditional pen-to-paper method. We also dive into looking back on old journals or other artifacts from our past that make us feel things :')Find Camille on Youtube @camlatz
Today we talk about girl best friends & guy best friends as mid-twenties women! We discuss our personal opinions about the differences we perceive in friendships based on gender. We also talk about how friendships with opposite gender friends can change based on factors like age or relationship status, and explore our personal thoughts about the "friend zone".
Today our friends Eddy and Jimmy join us to talk about NewJeans! We chat about how we first discovered them and fell in love with their music. We discuss why we think they were able to capture the hearts of so many around the world. We also talk about the current state of K-Pop and how accessible we feel the genre is.
Today our friend Lisa chats with us about planning her own wedding! We talk about how soon after the proposal we looked into venues & vendors. We also discuss whether fine tuning the aesthetics of the wedding come easily to us. We chat about finding a balance of support with our partners for the planning process. We also dive into the joys & pressures of the actual wedding day itself!
Today we talk about growing up in the San Francisco Bay Area. We talk about small town things (some of which are long gone) that made our hometown iconic in our childhood. We talk about locations that people went to hang out in high school. We also talk about running into people you know at the neighborhood In & Out.
Today our friend Tanaya joins us to talk about internships! We dive into the interview & onboarding process of internships. We discuss the concept of intern season and how we feel differently about it now vs. when we were actually in our internships. We also talk about how our mindset towards work has changed over the years.
Today our friend Vince joins us to talk about living with roommates. We talk about crazy stories from college where we experienced weird things with random roommates. We also talk about elements of being a good roommate. We discuss things we don’t mind sharing with roommates, and things we feel awkward or hesitant about sharing.
Today we talk about getting a new therapist! We dive into the process of opening up and breaking down walls in therapy. We also discuss the differences in types of therapy we’ve experienced. We talk about making small talk with your therapist and using real names in therapy.
Today our good friend Jessica joins us to talk about healthy relationships! We discuss some of the challenges we’ve had to overcome to form healthy relationships. We also talk about ways to resolve conflict in a healthy relationship. We also discuss signs of a healthy relationship & mindset changes we’ve learned from our partners.
Today we talk about our relationship with our parents and how we communicate with them! As we grow older, our relationships with our parents have been evolving, and we talk about our personal learnings and newfound respect for our parents in our adulthood.
Today our friend Amber joins us to talk about anime & weeb culture! We discuss the concept of “beginner animes” and what our first anime was. We also discuss animes that we may have unknowingly watched in our childhood. We discuss what we think were inflection points that made anime more mainstream.
Today our friends Michelle & Eric join us to chat about how they made their relationship government official! We talk about our thoughts on relationship labels and how they frame us in a certain way. We also discuss the external aspect of relationships, especially in the workplace. Michelle and Eric walk us through the process of entering a domestic partnership and what benefits they gain by legalizing their relationship.
We're at episode 200!!!! Thank you for sticking with us through the last four years. Here's to many more to come! Get lit with us today as we sip on some drinks and answered some spicy questions with embarrassing stories and funny moments.
Today our friend Abhi joins us to talk about his experience being a plus one to a member of the wedding party. We chat about introducing yourself to your SO’s family at a wedding, as well as jumping into conversations with other guests as a lonely plus one. We also discuss how lit you can get at a wedding if you’re a plus one, a wedding party member, or a family member!
Today our friend Melissa joins us to talk about planning out our lives! We discuss whether we prefer planning on a macro level (like 5 year plans or major life events) or planning on a micro level (to-do lists and full year outlooks). We talk about parts of planning that give us anxiety or keep us focused. We also discuss how to plan for and execute on goals to help us reach our ideal “adult” selves.
Today we talk about ways we try to be present in our daily lives and live in the moment. We theorize about why certain parts of our life feel vivid, and why certain periods feel harder to be present for. We also discuss doing new things (one of our new years’ resolutions!) like visiting a new city or engaging in new hobbies.
Today our friend Deepak joins us to share how he stays close to his cousins. We discuss keeping up with our cousins on social media and crossing the boundary from a family connection to a friendship. We also talk about whether parents ask for tea about cousins you’re close to.
Now that we’re back in the office more often…we’re feeling the office social anxiety more often! Today we talk about how to say hi to your coworkers, feeling antisocial at lunchtime, and other awkward office mishaps we’ve been experiencing lately. We also talk about whether to keep doing you, or matching the energy of your coworkers. For any basketball fans out there, we also talk briefly about our experiences going to some of the NBA Playoffs games!
Today our friend Cindy joins us to discuss all things group chats! We talk about setting the vibes of the group chat with fun nicknames, and how group chats can serve as a quick and easy way to coordinate hangouts (tfti tho), or even a memory archive for longstanding friendships! We also discuss the highs and lows of a group chat - from being left on read, to counting the number of reacts you get, and even going back to reread funny or heartfelt conversations.
Today our friend Eugene joins us to chat about Hinge profiles and first dates. We dive into common patterns and overdone lines we’ve seen in Hinge profiles, and talk about how to find compatibility in a Hinge profile when so many of them feel so similar. We also share our first date experiences and whether we would split the bill on the first date.
Today we chat about big moments in our life and reflect on what kind of advice we would give to our past selves. We muse about our confusion around choosing majors, the chances we had to network in high school & college, and our first heartbreaks. We also chat about buying apparel and shoes for high school dances & learning how to eat, socialize, and sleep properly in college.
Today our friend Andy joins us to talk about his experience moving to a brand new state…New Mexico! We dive into what it was like moving to a state where you don’t know anyone living there. We also chat about learning to be emotionally vulnerable with strangers and converting them into friends.
Today we talk about diversity & asian representation at school, at work, and in the media. We discuss the importance of having both culturally sensitive teachers, as well as teachers of similar ethnic background. We chat about how diversity at the workplace impacts our enjoyment and understanding of work.
This week, our friend Chelsea shares her experiences going to weddings in Malaysia & Guatemala. We explore how weddings outside of the US differ, from cultural ceremonies to expectations around gifts and guest lists. We also discuss how wedding guests decide whether to attend an international wedding or not based on factors like cost and time.
This week our friend Michelle joins us to talk about the importance of water cooler talk, the process of befriending someone at work, and how to turn a work friend into a lifelong bud. We share our experiences feeling weird emotional attachments to coworkers we’ve trauma bonded with or found common ground with. We talk about swiping on dating apps for your coworkers.
Crystal takes her family on a vacation to Hawaii! A bit of a role reversal from the family vacations we’re used to from our childhood. She shares how the planning process went, unexpected stories from the trip, and who the best behaved people were :-)
This week, we are joined by our friend Jin to chat about the differences from our friendships in childhood, college, and post-grad. We discuss the way our mindset towards friendship as well as the ease of making new friendships change in the different life stages.
Our friend Helen joins us today to talk about our personal icks & how we would react in sticky dating situations. We debate over whether we'd be OK if our hypothetical boos are too nice or follow a lot of IG models. We muse on whether we'd date a trendy guy, an Android guy, or a socks-with-sandals guy.
We talk about how the winter months make us want to watch sad things and be cozy. We discuss how isolation affects us emotionally, mentally, and socially. We exclaim our love for the word deadass (does this count as a gen z word??)
Our friend Jimmy joins us to talk about his experience walking his sister down the aisle and being the officiant for his other sister’s wedding. We also discuss what makes a good wedding speech and dive into the prep that goes into being an officiant.
This week our friend Aileen joins us to discuss whether we still seek parental permission for things, even in our late twenties. We talk about the word “gas” and whether it has a spot in our daily vocabulary. We muse on the evolving relationship we have with our parents and how we have changed our expectations and communication styles.
We discuss some of the unspoken etiquette for hosting friends and being a guest. We talk about good gift ideas, proper leaving times, and the challenge of being not too late, not too early. Join us in our mini quarter life crisis moment as we enter our late 20s.
This week we are joined by our friend Sunny who currently lives alone in SF. We discuss the pros and cons of living alone and whether or not we think it's for us. We also explore Crystal's Gen Z slang word of the week: "rizz".
This week we brought on our friend Jonathan to talk about law school. This will be the final episode of our #GRADSCHOOL series!! Thank you for all the love you have showed to the series and to our grad school guests :’)
Jeesoo goes to Korea and translates up a storm for her Chinese fiancee and Korean family.Crystal deals with a Valorant addiction and fascination with Gen Z slang.
Presenting the last episode of this season!! We are forever grateful for y’all and wish you and your loved ones happy holidays ❤️ We'll be back with a fresh season on January 11th.This week we reminisce on what our winter vacation looked like in our student years, and see how our expectations of the holiday season have evolved as we settle more into our working adult era.
The Kpop concert experience is more than just seeing your favorite artist perform songs you love. It’s about the outfit changes, the synchronized choreography, and the fan chants too!! Today we talk about our various Kpop concert experiences, compare Kpop & American concerts, and dive into the impact of Korean fan/idol culture!
Congratulations to Jeesoo for getting engaged!!Jeesoo has evolved her boyfriend into a fiance and we all couldn't be happier. Getting engaged surprisingly (or unsurprisingly) has a lot of behind the scenes planning and logistics that lead up to the big moment. Jeesoo shares her experiences in ring shopping, timeline planning, decision making, and of course receiving the proposal.
What exactly do you get out of business school when you get an MBA - specifically, what kind of connections can you gain, and what kind of soft/hard skills do your classes teach you? Today we dive into the value of an MBA with our guest, debunking any myths that we've commonly heard about the degree as well as diving deeper into the financial factors, the community aspects, and the resulting career impact that business school can provide!
If you've ever had to sacrifice a Saturday morning to go to language school, or spend time slaving away at language school homework, this episode goes out to you :') Today we discuss our Chinese school & Korean school experiences - everything from the style of homework and tests, the feeling of accomplishments and the feeling of annoyance, and the value of knowledge we received from our language school experience!
Today we dive down the grad school process of dental school & learn about the different intricacies of being a working dentist, whether it's the right balance between aesthetics & dental health, learning to interact with clients, or diversity in dental clinics.Follow Michael's dentistry instagram @kintsugi_dentistry
Another #GIRLTALK episode for y'all! Today we discuss the different personality traits & habits that are more pronounced depending on our relationship statuses. Does being single or being in a relationship affect our independence levels, attitudes towards self-growth, and willingness to meet new people? We also dive deeper into the relationship between our expectations for our friends and our expectations for our partners!
Moving out of your parents' place is a whirlwind of emotions - you have the heightened responsibility from having to put food on the table and handle all the chores, but you also get a taste of unadulterated freedom that allows you to go on spontaneous trips and eat ice cream for dinner without any parental commentary. Today we discuss what it looks like when you move back IN with your parents after living independently for awhile!
FOMO can manifest itself when you catch yourself feeling jealous of other peoples' Instagram photodumps, or you may find yourself feeling JOMO when you feel grateful for your clean sheets & warm bed as you flip through Saturday night bar selfies on Snapchat. Today we discuss the concept of FOMO (Fear of Missing Out) and JOMO (Joy of Missing Out) to see what our personal triggers are for each emotion, how we grapple with the envy you feel, and which one we feel more often at this stage in our lives.
Today we continue the #GRADSCHOOL series by exploring a non-STEM path, getting a Masters in Arts Education! Our guest turned her Masters in Arts Education into a consulting career, now guiding companies into strengthening their online media experience. We also get a glimpse into what it's like to do a virtual grad school program, and how to turn virtual grad school friends into lifelong friendships. Tune into this episode if you want to see an excellent example of a non-traditional career path from someone who stays true to herself & her interests!
Today we discuss a heavy topic - dealing with the loss of a parent, and how to learn and move past the grief. Our guest today, Ni Zhang, gets vulnerable with us as she shares how she processed the loss of her father at the young age of 18, and how she was able to turn a traumatic experience into life lessons that she still carries on to this day.Ni is an artist, a small business owner, and the host of podcast "That's what Ni said", which documents her journey as a mother, entrepreneur, and first generation immigrant. Check out Ni's podcast: "That's What Ni Said"
As wonderful and lifechanging as therapy is, there may be a time in your life where you may need to end things with your therapist. It doesn't have to be personal - you may be moving to a new location, strapped for cash, or just looking for a different perspective! Today, we walk through the process of ending things with your therapist.
Today we tackle the delicate balance of being a professional at work, while still coming off as likeable & pleasant! Staying calm in the workplace can occasionally feel like a challenge, especially when you're just starting out in a new job or are having a stressful time at work. We discuss the different factors that go into the 'perfect work image', and share things we've admired and learned from coworkers we admire.
Whether you hit a major relationship milestone or a mini one, there's a ton of key moments in a relationship that can serve as a turning point or show you a different side of your SO! Today we reflect on milestones like saying "I love you" or seeing each other intoxicated for the first time to evaluate how each milestone added a new element to our relationships.
Everyone does it...so why not talk about it?! Today we discuss our bodily functions by talking about our pee anxiety (or lack thereof), our quirky public pooping habits, and our experiences pooping at work. Remember to review your pee color today to check your hydration levels, and check in on a loved one's pooping schedule so they know it's real :')
CW: This episode contains some references to body image issues and restricted eating. Today we bring on Elise Liu, registered dietician & nutritionist, from the Craving Food Freedom podcast to discuss all things body image & food-related! We explore the way our childhood experiences & cultural background continue to affect the way we see our bodies and food. Elise also takes us through how she became a dietician and the nuanced ways she helps her clients unlearn restrictive habits and embrace intuitive eating!We also did an episode on Elise's podcast, Craving Food Freedom - check out ep 67 Adulting as Children of Immigrants! Craving Food Freedom is a podcast about creating a healthier relationship with food, free from bingeing, food obsession, and dieting. It's hosted by Elise Liu, an intuitive eating dietitian based in the Silicon Valley. As a child of immigrants, Elise knows firsthand how trauma, lack of belonging, and low self-worth can wreak havoc on one's relationship with food and body. Her private practice and podcast focuses on helping millennials TRUST themselves around food, develop self worth outside of their bodies, and become more intuitive eaters. Where you can find Elise:Instagram @craving.food.freedomTiktok @craving.food.freedomWebsite CravingFoodFreedom.com
Ever wonder how we spend an average day/week in our lives? Today we walk you through our everyday lifestyle, starting with our wakeup times all the way down to our nighttime routines! We discuss our thoughts on weeknight dinners, the sunday scaries, and how we deal with morning meetings.
Pets are so much more than just a furry companion - they become our best friends, our family members, and a huge part of our daily lifestyle! Today we bring on our dog mom friend to talk about her journey adopting a goldendoodle, the various ways she trained her puppy, and general tips on how to better connect with your dog. We also discuss the battle between cat people vs. dog people!
There's something very special about going to a restaurant that serves food of your cultural heritage. You may have some childhood memories of the dish or restaurant, you may have more depth of knowledge about the things you want to eat (and the things you can make at home!), and you may even be ordering and communicating in your own language. Today we unpack the Asian restaurant experience altogether, and discuss everything from Yelp reviews, fusion food, and upscale restaurants!Follow Niu Niu's food Instagram @niuyorkcityeats!
If any of you have ever experienced a breakup through email...please hit us up. Today we discuss how breakups have changed over the years, especially in the 'how' and 'why' categories. We also discuss the concept of breakup seasons and other common breakup-related theories and see if they hold true for our experiences as well!
Understanding where to even start when you have tense shoulders, a bad knee, or back pain can be pretty daunting. Luckily for us, physical therapists have all the expertise (and a doctorate's degree to boot)! Today a physical therapist shares with us how she chose to go to PT school, what she loves about her job, and whether she 'physically therapizes' herself with her clinical knowledge.Find Allison @allisonwin_
Amateur modeling and photo shoots can be a whirlwind of fun that can help you feel more comfortable in your skin, curate better outfits, and meet awesome, skilled connections! It can also open you up to paid gigs and cool events. However, you may want to make sure you select your connections carefully... Today our guest shares the perks and skills she's gained through her hobby of modeling and spills the tea about some weird situations amateur modeling has landed her in!Find Yane on Instagram, Twitch, Twitter, and Tiktok!
Your girls are in therapy, and in our FEEEELS! Today we talk about the very human experience of feeling emotions, reflect on how we deal with sadness and anger, and share any coping mechanisms that our therapists have equipped us with. Come get deep and introspective with us on our journey to being at peace with our feelings!
Understanding the nuances of sexual identity, especially in younger years, can be a long, complicated, and immensely personal journey. However, when you jump into this journey while moving amongst three different countries, you can guess that there would be even further cultural perspectives to add to the mix! Today, our guest (who is also the wonderful co-host of 'To Be Human' podcast) shares with us his experience navigating his sexual identity as a Third Culture Kid, from Germany to China to the United States. Follow To Be Human Podcast on IG! @tobehumanpodcast
After spending a large majority of our youth in school, going into grad school isn't an easy decision, especially for something as lengthy and intensive as a PhD program! Today we get an inside look into the life of a Bioengineering PhD student and evaluate what factors are important to consider before applying to higher education programs. We also look into the perks of having a phD (vs. Masters) in the Bioengineering field & how the programs themselves set you up for success after graduation!
In our experiences, friendship dynamics can be pretty different depending on the number of friends you have in your “group”. You and your bestie would be what we consider a duo, three’s a crowd, and then we got quads and 5-stacks! Today we muse on the advantages & pitfalls of different-sized friendship units.
The song "Mo Money Mo Problems" never took into account that you can funnel your extra money straight into your restaurant/DoorDash budget. Maybe with a little bit of emotional Amazon spending too. Today we get REAL with you guys and share our monthly expenses (please don't judge us!) as well as some of our spending habits & future financial goals.
When you grow up playing sports, you have that competitive nature within you... and that includes getting your friends to rally and play your favorite sport with you! Today we bring on our friend who participated in multiple sports growing up, and has now assembled her entire friend group to create a Volleyball Saturday trend with almost 20 people joining each week. For anyone who loves sports, loves competition, or wants to try something new with their friend group, this episode is for you!
As one of the generations that grew up on social media, we’ve seen the rise and fall of many different websites and apps, with each new trend of social media playing a different role in our lives. From the YOLO Snapchat era to the infamous Tumblr era, and now to new apps like BeReal and BeerBuddy, we dissect how each app makes us feel and act, and try to understand what makes or breaks a social media app!
To celebrate our 3 year anniversary, your hosts gathered some spicy questions and grabbed a few beers to do a little truth or drink session! Featuring lessons from our first kiss, stories of crazy hangovers, and mysterious fears and turn-ons that we attempt to explain!Thank you for the amazing last 3 years of Eat Your Crust Podcast!!! We are beyond grateful for our wonderful, supportive community who are navigating through the craziness of life alongside us. You've seen us grow from age 22-23, to now age 25-26. To many more years of eating the crust <3
Now that we're a little bit more adjusted to the 9-5 in our mid-twenties, the time has come to look for some hobbies! Whether you prefer your hobbies to be calming or exciting, hands-on or virtual, social or solo, there's something out there for the little child in all of us! However, our guest today talks about the meditative, primal nature of her hobby, ceramics, and it does make us intrigued to get our hands on some clay (or slime...or floam...). Join us as we discuss our perspectives & approaches to hobbies in our adulthood!
Vacations are always exciting (someone pls implement summer vacations for adults!!!) but part of the fun lies in the prepping & packing process ;-) From packing cubes to travel size toiletries, nothing is sexier than a perfectly planned capsule wardrobe organized neatly inside the perfect size suitcase. Today we discuss all of the hard work that goes into pre-vacation prep work, and discuss how our detailed packing & mental prep can make the actual vacation itself more exciting!
At least once a year, the unavoidable task of the Performance Review comes up. No pressure, but any potential you hope to have for a promotion, raise, or bonus are all based on this submission. Today we discuss how we go about the Performance Review process, any tips or tricks we've gleaned from our managers, and do some roleplaying action with our *professional voices* on!
This month, Crystal & Jeesoo ran a 5k together! We discuss how our running journeys have morphed from running the mile in middle school to incorporating runs into our 9-5s. Do we enjoy running now? It's tough to say... but we invite on some friends who run much longer & faster than us to see if they can pinpoint what qualifies someone as a 'runner'!
Crystal is officially 26 y'all!!! In honor of her birthday, she decided to throw herself a special SOLO vacay this year by going on a one night getaway alone! Tune in to hear how she spent her special day glamping in the woods, what kind of food & activities she brought to spend her time, and the various ruminations that arose in her dedicated day alone.
Today we discuss one of our favorite hobbies…reading! Not only has this manifested in a book club for our friend group, our love for reading makes it fun to reflect on our past reading choices (& what secret desires we wanted to fulfill with them), the different approaches to reading we’ve experienced (plot vs. prose?), and the thoughts we have about the impact of representation in some of our favorite books from childhood.
Whether it’s the school year coming to an end, or your favorite TV show airing its last episode, all good things come to an end. Today we discuss how we deal with the finality and temporary nature of various aspects of life, from silly things like overcoming the feeling of emptiness after finishing our favorite book/show, all the way to heavier feelings of ending a relationship or losing a loved one. We also tackle how we viewed and understood death at a young age, and how we’ve come to manage our feelings of grief and fear when faced with the concept/impact of mortality. Inspired by Season 1 of Asian Not Asian Podcast coming to an end!
Growing up in a multicultural household means...more food variety, more languages, and more confusion about what is actually one culture or the other! Our guest today shares what it was like growing up half-Chinese, half-Korean in a predominantly Korean area, the various differences in a multicultural household, and how she relates to "halfie culture" as a half-East Asian, half-East Asian woman!
We’re holding ourselves accountable for one of our New Years Resolutions! We’re in THERAPY! Today we share with you our journeys with therapy so far, as well as the random fears and insecurities we have about therapy. If you ever catch yourself trying to impress your therapist with your traumas, let us know…just asking for a friend…
Bootcamps have gained popularity over the years for helping people break into tech for less money and time than a traditional 4-year college. But what is it like learning 4 years of material in a condensed amount of time? Today we brought on our friend who went through the Bootcamp experience to become a Software Engineer! He dives into the differences between Bootcamp and college classes, the stigmas of Bootcamps in the industry, and whether he felt the experience was worth the money or not.
The more the merrier! But does this apply to friend groups, Discord servers, and Messenger group chats? Today we discuss the concept of friend groups and how various factors like platform, size, and distance can impact them. We also explore how different friend groups can bring out different sides of us, and share the various archetypes of friends we see!Follow Yane on IG @yanebunFollow Yane on Twitch @yanebunFollow Yane on YouTube @yanebun
When work is feeling really busy, it can bleed into the way you feel even outside of work. The overwhelming feeling of burnout makes you feel like life is coming at you a million miles per hour. Trust me, we’ve been there. Today we discuss the way burnout manifests in our lives and share some tips and tricks we use to manage our daily energy and time!
A little under a year ago, Jeesoo and her boyfriend bought a house together! Not only was this a major decision that required a lot of awkward conversations about money, ownership, and the future, it was also an emotional rollercoaster full of rejections and excitement. Tune in for some juicy tea about the kind of discussions we had, the offers we put in, and the general lifestyle change following the purchase!
We have a lot of complicated feelings about our period. We’re no longer the shy teenagers at school who whispered about our periods, but we’re not necessarily the biggest fans of the monthly ritual either, especially not when it comes with cramps, acne, and mood swings. However, we DO love relating with other women and all people with periods about our shared experiences for all things “taboo”, including gynocologist exams and STD tests! Tune in to hear us connect with Melinda and Uma from @lets.sync.health about periods & sexual health.Let's Sync is a platform & community to learn and chat on all things gender and health in an open, inclusive, and encouraging way. They believe that together, we can all become more informed and confident on these topics. Their IG features a lot of cool resources so go check out their page @lets.sync.health!
It's been almost exactly 1 year since Crystal has moved to New York City - and, over that past year, many more of our friends have been moving to "The Big Apple" as well! Whether it's the liveliness of the city, the famous restaurants, or just the vague image of the city we remember from shows like "Friends" and "How I Met Your Mother", there's something about New York City that calls to us. Today we discuss how NYC has brought out different sides of Crystal and impacted things like financial priorities, making plans, and not yelping at subway rats!
Wishing you good fortune, good health, and many blessings this Lunar New Year! Today we put our brains together to think of the ways our families have adapted Korean, Chinese, and Vietnamese traditions for LNY for our modern Asian-American families. Whether our families celebrated through cultural foods, religious rituals, or superstitions, we stumble through our understanding of Lunar New Year and try to see how we can carry on these traditions in our own lives.
Have you ever had a crush on a BFF? Or have received a confession from a close friend who you thought you had a platonic relationship with? Maybe you're a chronic friend-dater and have only been in relationships that spark from intimate friendships in the first place. In any case, this episode is for you! Today we discuss the confusing land between close friends & potential lovers and dig into our experiences to evaluate whether truly platonic friendships can exist.
How many hours a week do you spend in your car? Today we discuss the activity of DRIVING and the various nuances that come up, from shotgun duties, to bathroom breaks on a road trip, to handling accidents! Tune in to catch the driver privileges & shotgun duties we expect in our own cars :)
Ringing in the new year & new season by catching up on what we’ve been doing the past few weeks! We got some closet adventures, board game marathons, and lots of parent-child bonding going on ;) Hope you missed us as much as we missed you! Happy New Year!!
Recently we've experienced some changes in our approach to friendships and the life cycles of friendships themselves. Whether this is due to our age creeping through the mid-twenties, the long distance we're experiencing between more and more of our friendships, or even the general lack of time we feel with work taking up a larger part of our work day, making new friends and balancing time between friendships is becoming a bigger challenge in our day to day. Today we discuss how we've been dealing with all of these things and share some of the ways we've been tackling changes in our personal friendship as well!This is the last episode of 2021! Thank you so much for your support and love, and for hanging out with us every Wednesday this year. We will be back with a new season on Wednesday, January 12th, 2022, so keep your eyes peeled for a fresh episode from us! In the meantime, feel free to keep up with us on Instagram
Anyone doing their holiday shopping right now?! Finding the perfect gift for a loved one can be one of the most difficult tasks, especially when you add in the complications of friend groups, budgets, and even living situations. Tune in to catch how we approach gifting for our SOs and friends!
Loneliness seems to weave its way into our lives, no matter what age we’re at, even during the festive holiday times. In the moment it may feel like loneliness is overwhelmingly isolating, but hopefully our conversation makes you feel less alone! Today we dive into the 7 types of loneliness to see which one we feel the most often, identify the most common causes of loneliness are for us, and discuss the best short term and long term fixes that seem to help us the most.
Identifiable by the Pumpkin Pie slices, the dry ass Turkey, and the mysterious cranberry sauce (what is that even for???), Thanksgiving is usually an excuse for a fun feast with loved ones. This year, both of us are celebrating Thanksgiving away from our parents, so we decided to reminisce on past Thanksgivings with our Asian households, and explore the way Thanksgiving has changed in meaning over the years - including when it starts to involve your S.O.'s family!!! Tune in to hear us rank our favorite Thanksgiving foods ;)Hope everyone has a happy Thanksgiving!
Feeling truly rested and relaxed is becoming more and more of a challenge...especially in our mid-twenties where our chores, our obligations, and our bills seem to haunt us!! Today we try to dissect what factors make us feel the most rested, formulate the "perfect weekend", and fantasize about what we would do if we had unlimited time off work!
It seems like just yesterday that we were the fresh-faced new grads at work... but as we're in our mid-twenties, some of our friends are progressing down their careers and becoming MANAGERS! In this episode we discuss the challenges and rewards of people management, the emotional aspects of being a good manager, and the secret tips you learn in managerial training. We also talk about the importance of giving good feedback, mastering the poker face, and managing your stress (hint: scream into a pillow or develop a Manager Support Group)!
Conversations are an essential part of our daily lives - everything from small talk with your coworkers to awkward conversations with extended family to deep talks with your closest friends. Today we dissect the various styles of conversations we experience the most, talk about the nuances of conversations we appreciate, and delve into any tips on breaking the ice or taking the conversation beyond the surface level.
For many of us, the immigration experience is linked through our family - either someone in the family immigrated first or we immigrated alongside our parent. But for a lot of us, immigrating was more of an independent adventure! Today we bring on our friend who has been through both a homestay and a boarding school, and discuss the differences between the cultural experience, parenting style, and long term impacts between the two.
Going to the gym can be an intimidating experience, especially when you're surrounded by burly jacked people and picture-perfect fitness influencers. Actually, even when you're surrounded by regular ol' people it can still be a bit nerve-wracking. Today we bring on our resident gym expert buds to chat about their first time going to the gym, proper gym etiquette, and embarrassing gym stories!Follow us on IG!
Back with another K-Pop episode! This time, we dive deep into the world of girl groups to see how our personal opinions of girl groups has evolved and also how girl groups act and are portrayed differently from debut to mid-stage to late-stage. We also explore the relationship between fan culture, management companies, and capitalism 👀 hope to see all you TWICE, Girls Generation, and BLACKPINK fans tune in! Follow us on IG!
Whether you go back every chance you get, or you haven't been at all, the "Motherland" can be a mystical place that represents so much - from our cultural heritage, to our familial roots, to even just random memories or references from media. Today we try to define the term in our own words by describing what the Motherland truly represents in our personal lives. From pre-trip rituals (nut shopping anyone?) to language anxiety to getting questioned by the TSA, we delve into some of our favorite memories together in this wholesome, bittersweet episode! Follow us on IG!
Whether you're an avid TechCrunch reader, a listener of Robinhood Snacks, or even a K-Drama fan who happens to love Bae Suzy and Nam Joo-Hyuk, it's hard not to notice that there's a lot of hubbub about startups in the media. Are the stereotypes of family-style work culture, free food and endless morale, and millionaire 25-year olds true? Today we delve into our personal experiences of working in different stages/styles of startups, and discuss the culture surrounding the mystical IPO and startup label!Follow us on IG!
Shang Chi is finally in theaters, and both of us have THOUGHTS!!! Today we share our favorite parts of the movie (don't worry, we'll warn you before the spoilers), discuss the various expectations surrounding the release, and share whether we thought Shang Chi did cultural representation correctly. We even discuss some of the latest Twitter controversy surrounding the star of Shang Chi, and talk about the chaos of celebrity status and cancel culture! Follow us on IG!
We’re not qualified to be your financial advisor…but we do have our own personal spending habits that we can share! Today we discuss what we’ve been spending money on recently, our financial black hole categories, and discuss why it is that spending habits tend to become everyone’s business. If you’re my accountant or mom, there’s nothing to see here except how we use our money to empower our goals towards health and happiness!Follow us on IG!
Moving is such an exciting, yet exhausting ordeal, that no matter how much you prep, it never feels like enough. This week we discuss the various methods of moving we’ve tried out, from the good ol’ U-Haul to PODS to full-service movers, share any lessons we’ve learned from our moving mishaps, and celebrate the excitement and joys of moving!
It often feels like there's not enough hours in the day - between managing your job and/or schoolwork, taking care of your health, and pursuing your hobbies and goals, relationships can add another layer of difficulty for managing your time. Today we discuss how relationships (romantic, platonic, and familial) play into the delicate game of time management, explore whether gender & ubringing have an impact on our ideas of "sacrifice", and dive into the complicated nuances of conflicting advice on social media.Our guests today are Alyssa & Alexis of Lotus Magazine, an e-magazine that serves as a platform for self-identifying Asian American womxn, especially focusing on cultivating a sense of community by elevating voices and stories that are often overlooked. They upload a new issue on a bi-monthly basis, and us EYC girls are on the Sept/Oct issue. Follow Lotus Mag on IG (https://www.instagram.com/lotus_mag/)Check out the Sept/Oct issue thru their website (http://lotus-mag.com/index.html)
Sometimes the most unexpected things can trigger us to re-examine our identity. Whether it's wondering who to root for in the Olympics or deciding to use an "American" name to meet new people, our identity is constantly in flux! Today we discuss any recent changes our Asian American identity has undergone, and also discuss the role that racial/ethnic identities play in a digital world. Follow us on IG
Do you recall any iconic relationships from your middle school? Not to flex on you, but the iconic relationship from our middle school is still going strong! ;)Today we brought on our good friends to recount the middle school/high school drama surrounding their relationship, explore the various ways the relationship evolved over the years, and discuss the benefits and drawbacks of dating a high school sweetheart.Follow us on IG
We often hear the phrases “bromance” or “bro code”, but what do these things look like in real life? Today we brought on two guy friends of ours to discuss what it means to be best friends for men, see if there’s any difference in communication style or expectations from girl best friends, and delve into some sticky situations that require good ol’ bro code!Follow us on IG
In what seems like a blink of an eye, both of us are (or are about to turn) 25 years old! Although technically we can lump together the past five years of our lives as our "early to mid twenties", personally we feel that each year of our twenties has been a vastly different, wonderfully unique chapter of our lives.In this episode, we describe the mindset, emotions, and big events we had in each year of our twenties, and discuss how our experience as being twenty-somethings lines up to our childhood expectations.Follow us on IG
Summer of 2021 just feels different from summer of 2020. This is the year of vaccines, better mental health, and setting boundaries for ourselves (Wow!!!) This episode, we get intimate as we discuss how our mental, physical, and spiritual health have evolved over the years. We share what our vision of our 'ideal self' is and discuss how our ideas of "healthy" are completely different now vs. when we were younger! Follow along to hear about our ups and downs & the various mindset changes we've experienced. Ready for Healthy Hot Girl Summer?! ;)Follow us on IG
You may have heard us reference our post-grad Asia trip a few times - the one where we + our two friends James and Abhi explored Tokyo and Seoul for almost 3 weeks in the summer following our college graduation. Today we brought the gang back together to talk about what made that trip so successful, how we went about planning it, and the various memories we have from that summer together! Hopefully you can glean some tips and tricks if you're planning for any vacays with your friends this year, but even if you aren't, join us for some funny stories of our travel struggles and DAB-ass selves ;) Follow us on IG
Apartments can be a great way to begin your dream life of sheer, unadulterated independence ;) It’s also a fantastic way to live in a big city on a tight budget. Today we share our various experiences at apartments - everything from apartment hunting to apartment must-haves to dealing with apartment management! Follow us on IG
We all were kids once…but that doesn’t mean we all WANT kids! Or does it?? Today we discuss every aspect of kids we can think of - starting from our fears about having our own kids, silly stories from our childhood, or dissecting the concept of our inner child, we got KIDS on the mind! Join us if you go through phases of baby fever or if you’ve ever had thoughts about going child-free.Visit Jane’s cool ass website janeekim.comFollow Jane on IG @jane_e_kimFollow us on IG
In an increasingly globalized world (aka, rise of the Third Culture Kids!!), cultural awareness is becoming an incredibly important skill that can help you navigate social situations with people from all different walks of life. Anyone who's been asked, "No, where are you REALLY from?" can attest to how lack of cultural awareness can lead to uncomfortable situations. Today, we discuss various ways we've experienced uncomfortable interactions as TCKs and unpack the power of storytelling on self-identity and cultural sensitivity.Follow Weirong! @joinrawcultureVisit Raw Culture's website! https://joinrawculture.com/Follow us on IG!
We’re back with a sustainability episode! This week, we check in about some of the small ways we’ve incorporated sustainability into our routine. Whether it’s prolonging the life of our groceries, upcycling our glass jars, or trying to use less THINGS in general, we hope our small humble habits are undoing at least a little bit of environmental harm.Of course, we’re nothing compared to the sustainability role models that our parents often are, and these are just our personal journeys with sustainability, so please feel free to reach out to us on Instagram if you have even more tips for us!! Follow us on IG
Hey you! Did you know Father's Day is coming up this Sunday? This week, we share some stories about our fathers and how their unique quirks have shaped our lives and personalities. From Holiday Party PPTs to getting literally dragged out of bed, our dads both defy and embody Asian Dad stereotypes in their own ways. Join us to hear our cute childhood stories & our dad-daughter dynamic evolutions! Follow us on IG
Today we’re stoked to have on Aly Casas, who balances her work as Director of Education & Events in the luxury skincare industry along with her creative pursuits as a Voice Actor, most recently featured in the Netflix TV show, Trese! Based on a popular Filipino komik series by Budjette Tan, Trese is a horror/mystery series that follows the detective heroine through her adventures and interactions with creatures from Filipino folklore.Don’t miss this episode with Aly where we talk about her experience in the past 10 years working in the world of voice acting & theatre, the process of overcoming personal insecurities and owning your talents, the importance of diversity & representation in media, and of course, the amazing story that is Trese! Follow Aly on IG! @alycasasFollow us on IG
We can't believe it! It's our 100th episode! Today we wanted to celebrate hitting the BIG 1-0-0 with you guys by sharing a little bit about...names! Join us to hear how we came up with the podcast name, hear the backstories behind our Asian/English names, learn about our weird AF nicknames, and even more silly name stories :) Follow us on IG
Back again with a #GIRLTALK episode! This week, we dive into how being religious can affect your love life & your relationship with sex, and explore how Christianity can enrich and add unexpected challenges (in a good way!) to your relationships as well. Follow Hairol on Substack! hairol.substack.comFollow Joelle on IG! @joelleololFollow Joelle on Youtube!
Today we dissect our frustrations and emotions following the Atlanta spa shootings, the complicated relationship between social media & entertainment and treatment of women, and the various things we do for our personal safety & mental health that men might not think about. Any fed-up women, all curious men, and anyone who loves a good rant can check out this episode to see the various ways we’ve spotted misogyny - in the word “panties”, in porn, in memes, in cuss words, etc… 🤔 Follow us on IG
As a Graphic Designer & Independent Artist with her very own Etsy shop, our friend Michelle has run into many obstacles that stand between her and fair compensation. Today she spills the tea on entitled clients, evil corporations, and the difficult task of ethical shopping as a consumer!Follow Michelle on instagram @mtamdoesartCheck out Michelle's shop on Etsy mtamdoesart.etsy.comFollow us on IG
With Mother’s Day coming up (yes, this weekend!!!), we wanted to celebrate by talking about our relationship with our moms, their interesting personality quirks, and juicy stories from their mysterious pasts! Tune in to catch some gift recommendations and hear about some other maternal figures who’ve impacted our lives as well. Happy Mother’s Day to all mothers, maternal figures, and inspirational caregivers who take on the responsibility of parenthood. ❤️ Follow us on IG!
Buying a home is quite an intimidating process. Not only will it probably be one of the most expensive purchases in your lifetime, it also has a ton of rules & steps in the procedure you may have never heard of! Since we are two novices who don’t own any property, we invited on our real estate agent friend, Andre Wang, to break down the home-buying process and share what to look for when selecting a real estate agent & mortgage lender to work with. Tune in to catch some insider tips & insight into what to expect in the journey to purchase your first home! Disclaimer: Many of the things we discussed today may not be relevant or applicable to other markets outside of the Bay Area, but we hope it’s still interesting to hear about the housing market over here in Northern California :) Follow Andre on IG! @andreshanewangCheck out Andre’s team! kimott.comFollow us on IG!
It's been almost 3 years since we've graduated, which means we've also been working for a similar amount of time. While the 9-5 does have its ups and downs, we're mostly grateful to be along for the ride! Today we reflect on our past few years of being a corporate slave (haha jk) and rate some of the job advice we've been given when we were students. Follow us on IG!
We're not quite at the age where all our friends are getting married left and right, but it is an important milestone that is creeping up on us. Whether we've been to 10+ family weddings and know the cultural ceremonies like the back of our hand, or whether all of our wedding knowledge derives from the chick lit we read when we were 12 years old, we chat about our various wedding experiences and how they affect our personal expectations for our weddings. Follow us on IG!
Since we’ve both started cooking more for ourselves in the past few years, there’s a few gripes we have about cooking. First of all, we’re spending more and more time (and money!) thinking about, prepping for, and cleaning up after cooking. Second of all, why does it take 10+ hours of careful love and coddling for us to make some decent bone broth at home?! Join us for our little rant session today to see if any of your cooking pet peeves come up! Follow us on IG!
As you know, we love to dive into the Asian American experience (and Asian Canadian experience), since both of us grew up in North America. But the Asian experience extends beyond the US & Canada, so today we bring on our friend Niu-Niu to hear about what it was like growing up in Hungary, especially as someone who is ethnically Chinese! Niu-Niu shares her experience as a Third Culture Kid, debunks some International School myths, and shares her mindset approaching the job hunt as a non-resident of the US. Follow us on IG!
New York City, say hello to your newest resident! One of us is moving to New York City, can you guess who? As suburban girls at heart, a cross-country move into the Big Apple is hugely exciting, but also a little bit intimidating. We dive into the decision-making process, the logistics (hint: a combination of spreadsheets & YOLO energy), and the emotional aspect of moving away from the hometown.--- How to help the victims of the Atlanta Shootings https://www.gofundme.com/c/act/stop-aapi-hate Quick plug for the podcast "Time to Say Goodbye", where the most recent episodes provide thoughtful, informational discussions on processing the Atlanta shooting
Hey... We need to talk. What are we? You guessed it - today's episode is a (semi-morally questionable) guide to navigating the CONFUSING maze that is defining the relationship! We go over any personal rules we bring to our approach of DTRing, our least favorite stages of relationship development, and even act out a few examples (!!!) so you have some references you can look back on the next time you have to have *the talk * ;) Proceed at your own risk... but this is a fun one! Follow Amy's Art IG! @amyxiaart Follow us on IG!
It’s no secret that friendships are a big part of our lives - from our close high school group chats, to our long distance friends we truly miss, to the friends who are always down to do absolutely nothing together, our friendships mean just as much to us as our relationships! But does the amount of effort, vulnerability, and transparency we bring to friendships match the level of internal appreciation we have? Are we as willing to work on our Big Friendships as we are on our relationships? Today we delve into our thoughts on friendship insecurities, improving intimacy with friends, and our personal friendship learnings. This episode is inspired by and dedicated to “Big Friendship: How We Keep Each Other Close” by Aminatou Sow and Ann Friedman. Not only is their book a phenomenal deep dive into the importance of working on your meaningful friendships, Aminatou and Ann host a wonderful podcast called “Call Your Girlfriend” that delves deeper into the nuances of friendship. Please check them out and give them some love!!! Check out Big Friendship Follow Call Your Girlfriend on IG! @callyrgfFollow us on IG!
From data scientist to TikTok star, and everything in between - Brian Xu joins us today to chat about how his data storytelling & height guessing videos went viral, how he makes sense of the various Asian-American spaces on the #fyp, and the neat little features & community aspects that make TikTok a unique platform. Don’t miss this episode where Brian guesses OUR heights and reveals whether he’s on Thirst Trap TikTok or not 👀 Follow Brian on TikTok @bri_xu Follow Brian on IG @bri_xu Follow us on IG!
Awkward moments are truly the spicy parts of everyday life. They're difficult are to avoid, impossible to forget, and frequent enough to keep us on our toes! Today we'll be sharing some of the awkward moments we've experienced that keep us up at night, and dissect whether we've learned or gained anything from them.Follow us on IG!
Behind the articles that pop up on our news feed, there’s a reporter staying up late at night typing up a storm on their dimly lit laptop. Terry Nguyen is a reporter for The Goods at Vox, covering internet & consumer trends. Not only do her articles cover on-trend topics that fly under the radar of mainstream media, they’re also imbued with a sense of cultural understanding that fosters constructive discussion and empathy. In today’s episode, Terry shares what it’s like to be a reporter, divulges the secret origins of her writing career, and discusses the complicated cross-section of activism, social media, and fake news. Check out Terry’s articles on Vox! Follow Terry on IG! @terrynguyenFollow us on IG!
TW: This episode contains stories of depression, suicide, and self-harm. National Suicide Prevention Hotline: 800-273-8255 ADHD (attention deficit hyperactivity disorder) is a neurodevelopmental disorder, commonly portrayed as an inability to sit still and concentrate. While that isn’t completely off base, the reality of ADHD, especially when undiagnosed, is much more complex. Our friend Carissa joins us today to share her experience with ADHD - she opens up about living with undiagnosed ADHD, navigating the confusing steps to getting a diagnosis, and unlearning the internalized shame and stigma in her ongoing journey to self-acceptance. Follow us on IG!
There seems to be a lot of contention about exactly what year the cutoff is between Gen Z and Millenials... so we brought on some 1998 friends to confirm! Today we're excited to have Sally, Linda, and Ming from Moving Oolong come on to discuss whether they identify as Gen Z, what it was like to graduate on Zoom, and starting adulthood amidst a global pandemic. Sally, Linda, and Ming started Moving Oolong Podcast to share their stories and growing pains as recent college graduates from class of 2020. Their intersecting identities as Asian American women play a large role in shaping their experiences as young adults and hope this podcast acts as a time-capsule to remember and reflect on this time of transition in their lives. Visit Moving Oolong at https://www.movingoolongpod.com/ Follow Moving Oolong on IG! @movingoolongpod Follow us on IG!
Having your own space is something we’ve dreamed about since we were young. Being a homeowner just means you get to decorate it the way you like……right? This week we invited our friend to walk us through the fun stuff, and not-so-fun stuff she’s experienced in the last few years of owning her own space. Put on your construction hats and get your mops ready for some drywall mishaps, cleaning tips, and other maintenance stories!Follow Laney on IG! @mu.laneydoodleFollow us on IG!
Is your current life the "dream life" you've always envisioned for yourself? What's stopping you from becoming the "dream" you? We don't have these answers for you...so we brought on a very qualified friend to do so! Today we are so stoked to have on Lillian So - a life coach, personal trainer, and yoga therapist currently based in San Francisco. Not only does she explain the importance of identifying your most important intentions, she also walks us through how to make the dream life achievable. If you're a lost, anxious twenty-something (like us), don't miss this episode - it's a good one!Follow Lillian on IG! @meetlillianso Find Lillian's FB group, website, and email here linktr.ee/meetlillianso Follow us on IG!
Happy New Year, and welcome to Season 3 of Eat Your Crust!!! Catch up with us in our episode on what we've been up to over our holiday break! We also share what we're excited for in 2021 (fair warning: some of them are a total nostalgia trip) and give you a sneak peek of what we have planned for Eat Your Crust this year ;) Follow us on IG!
Happy Holidays from ours to yours! This week we’re cozying up to talk about how our families celebrate the holidays. This will be our final episode for season 2! We will return in January 13th, 2021, well-rested and well-prepped for season 3. Thank you all so so much for supporting and spending time with us in 2020. Every message, follow, and listen means the world to us. See you soon ♡
We kind of grow up alongside the content creators that we love. And for some of us, our favorite content creators are the ones who wear their heart on their sleeve. YouTuber Joelle Park has videos spanning over 7 years of her life. Her channel features everything from high school/college advice videos, heartfelt videos addressing important topics like racism and internalized misogyny, and goofy vlogs with her friends and family. Not only do we love her fun content, we love her for her raw, open vulnerability with her viewers. Today we discuss trends in media and the expectations they place on creators, the balancing act of pushing out content you enjoy vs. content that does well, and the impact of filming vlogs on self-confidence. Follow Joelle on YouTube https://www.youtube.com/c/JustJoelle1Follow Joelle on IG @joelleololFollow Eat Your Crust Pod on IG
When life feels like it’s running a million miles per hour, taking care of the big things feels much more urgent than the little things. But often times, it’s the little things that bring the most joy! Inspired by Ingrid Joy Fetell Lee’s Joyful Planner, which encourages us to actively plan for joy rather than expect it to spontaneously stumble into our lives, we express our gratitude about the little things we’ve been doing in the past few months that have brought us joy. Wishing everyone a happy Thanksgiving from our families to yours ♡ Check out Ingrid Fetell Lee’s Joyful Planner Follow us on IG
Birth control can be intimidating. There’s so many different shapes, sizes, and forms of use, not to mention the horror stories you hear through WebMD or your friends. Whether you see them as a pesky chore or a form of empowerment, it’s an essential part of many of our lives. Today we tackle our experiences with different types of birth control, any side effects we’ve experienced, and the involvement of our male partners in our BC journey! Follow us on IG
Gender expression is often taught to us through things like TV shows, school uniform rules, or conversation with our parents. But when you grow up in between two different cultures, it can mean you’re exposed to double the stereotypes and expectations! Today we take a blast to the past to observe the various gender roles we’ve picked up through our favorite Asian dramas and celebrities, and explore how these portrayals translate to female empowerment and LGBTQ acceptance in society and our families. Our guest, Karen, is a fellow podcast host of her own show Mx. Asian-American, where she explores the Asian-American experience in all aspects of life. Check out the episode that Crystal and I did on Karen's podcast (ep#24 - East vs. West with Crystal and Jeesoo)! Follow Eat Your Crust Pod on IG!
Silicon Valley is the pinnacle of technology - so much so that you can’t go anywhere without being reminded of it! Whether it’s the tech company logos on everyone’s laptops or the constant conversations on which start-up will IPO next, tech culture imbues both work and personal life in the Bay Area. Today we are delighted to feature Mayuko Inoue, a Content Creator and Software Engineer who is breaking down barriers in tech culture. Not only does she demystify the world of tech in her informative YouTube videos, she also makes coding seem fun and chill through her co-working streams on Twitch. Don’t miss today’s episode where we talk about the importance of diversity in tech, discuss our favorite (and least favorite) parts of tech culture, and explore what it’s like to be an Asian-American woman in STEM! Follow Mayuko on IG @hellomayuko Follow Mayuko on YouTube hellomayuko Follow Mayuko on Twitch @hellomayuko Follow Eat Your Crust on IG
When we think about our well-being, we often think of our physical health. But wellness isn’t restricted to just exercise - it’s a combination of factors including your mental health, your social life, and many other aspects you wouldn’t have expected! Tune in to catch our chat about the 8 dimensions of wellness and our current health goals!Follow Krezia's wellbean account @growing.wellbeanFollow us on insta
Ever look at your coworker and wonder if they have a secret online identity you never would have expected? Their ability to type up emails, code, or business plans could be hiding a whirlwind of talents. In today’s episode, Gina aka DiskQ shares her experience balancing her day job as a software engineer and her dream job as a music producer. If her dreamy bedroom pop songs and nostalgic 8bit tracks aren’t impressive enough, she has also performed in festivals like Joy Ruckus Club, alongside big-name artists like Eric Nam and f(x)’s Luna. Don’t miss out on catching her thoughts on managing ADHD as an engineer and musician, the treatment of women in the music industry, and handling critiques on her music! Follow Gina on IG @diskqmusicFollow us on IG
Election Day is coming up! If you can vote, please do. Not only is voting important for the Presidential race, it’s also crucial to pass propositions that can transform your state and community. And what about for those of us who can’t vote? Today we bring on two friends, Neil and Richard, to guide us through different ways we can make change, whether it’s through voting or through other means! Neil Park McClintick is a political organizer, current Chair of the grassroots coalition Cupertino for All, and former Poli Sci major at UC Berkeley joining us with tips on getting involved on a more local level. Richard Lim is a current Researcher and coordinator at Stop AAPI Hate Reporting Center, and former History / Asian-American studies major at UC Berkeley, with an abundance of insight on historical events and the current Asian-American climate.
To celebrate our love for Asian movies, we are virtually attending the Asian American International Film Festival this year!! We give our love to the movies “Model” and “Stealing School” (yes, there are spoilers, but we’ll warn you first!) There’s still a few more days left in the festival and a TON of movies that are super interesting, so check it out and let us know what films you decide to watch :)Get tickets to AAIFF here:aaiff.org Follow us on insta!
Today we gather an only child, a younger sibling, and a middle child to talk about our various “siblingships” and how they affected different parts of our life.While different age gaps, personalities, and genders can completely transform the dynamic, one thing’s for sure - siblings have a huge impact during childhood and can help shape your preferences and personality! Follow us on insta!
It feels like it used to be easier to make new friends when you were constantly meeting new people every year in classes or clubs. Now that we are (kind of) fully functioning adults, we invite our friend who has moved to a new city to talk about the various ways she was successful in making new friends in an unfamiliar place - including work functions, mutual friends, and Bumble BFF! Tune in to hear the ~vibes~ we look for when we make friends, and our first impressions of each other (from 6 years ago!!) Follow us on insta!
Secret confession: I had no idea that there were Asian-American movies prior to the launch of Crazy Rich Asians. Oops! If any of you are like me, you’ll be stoked to hear Wynton Wong, Head Programmer of the Asian American International Film Festival (AAIFF) talk about groundbreaking Asian-American films that flew under the radar. Bonus content - we share our honest, unfiltered thoughts on Mulan o: AAIFF is a fantastic platform that not only celebrates historically significant films, but also showcases up-and-coming creatives that bring colorful, nuanced stories to our community (and are also just great movies in general!) This year, the festival will be VIRTUAL, so don’t miss out on some awesome films and content!Use our exclusive Eat Your Crust discount code to get 20% off of your tickets: AAIFF43_41SlfStay up-to-date with AAIFF: aaiff.org Asiancinevision.org twitch.tv/asiancinevision youtube.com/asiancinevision @asiancinevision - twitter, instagram Follow Wynton! Twitter: @wwingwong IG: @wyntonw
If you've ever used Spotify or YouTube to listen to music, you've probably stumbled upon a song in a language you don't know how to speak. But have you ever heard a song that features not just one, but 3 different languages?This week we chat with Crystal's high school friend Austin (aka Aleebi). He makes music in English, Korean, and Japanese and has garnered over 200,000 total streams on Spotify.Austin shares with us his experience as an Asian-American rapper in an increasingly global music market. What role does language play in self-expression? How can Asian artists explore the Hip Hop space without veering into cultural appropriation?Check out:Austin on instagram: @aleebi & Friends:@jsalenphotography@jnybeatzz@officialkeepitinside@tysonyoshi@ranchisnoble@michrome_boyz
Moving in with your significant other is a BIG step. While living with your best friend and lover is a dream come true, it also requires lot of healthy communication and compromise behind the scenes. Tune in to catch our experiences with moving in with an SO straight out of college!Follow us on insta!
We don’t discriminate when it comes to food - whether it’s a homemade meal fresh from Mom’s kitchen, or a fancy night out with too many courses to count, we want it all!!! (Unless it’s rainbow bagels or bacon ice cream - that’s a firm no from both of us.) Join us today for a fun episode about our favorite meals and our food pet peeves. All foodies welcome! Follow us on insta!
Calling all travel lovers, budding teachers, and weaboos!Our guest today is a friend who is currently teaching English in Japan to high school students. He set off on this journey with images of playful school life and dreams of peaceful landscapes often depicted in anime, but does his 2-year adventure meet his expectations?! Today we chat about the JET program (Japanese Exchange and Teaching), the relationship between students and teachers in America vs. in Japan, and dealing with homesickness and culture shock! Follow us on insta!
Disclaimer: This episode focuses on Bay Area cost of living and average salaries. We recognize that location is a huge factor in the variance of salaries/pay rates. Parents often tell their kids not to talk about money because it’s rude, without explaining why they think it’s rude. But growing up, it’s not difficult to realize why having conversations about money are so awkward. In a capitalistic society where money = merit and money = power, we start to evaluate our own self-worth and happiness on money. Today we wanted to have an open, vulnerable conversation about our salaries and how we manage our money as 24 year olds in the San Francisco Bay Area. While we don’t believe this episode should be a “guide” to managing money (we are noobs, please do your own research), we hope our honesty about our anxiety around salaries, saving, and investing ring true with many of you :) Follow us on insta!
When we were young, we were told not to give out any personal information on the Internet. But now, we pay strangers to drive us around, play games with strangers, and even go on dates with strangers! In today’s episode we dive beyond the “stranger danger” mentality to discuss the often stigmatized concept of online friends. While the beginning of the friendship may feel unconventional, sometimes online friends can be the most comfortable solace you never knew you needed.Fun fact (and light flex) about today’s guest - he’s diamond in Valorant and was once Global Elite in CS GO ;-) Follow us on insta!
When we think about Healthcare, we often think of doctors and surgeons running around (a la House or Grey’s). What’s often overlooked is the hard work put in by nurses, who play a vital role in protecting patients’ lives. Today we bring on two active RNs (registered nurses) working in the Emergency Department and the Medical Surgery Unit. As if being a nurse isn’t crazy enough, these two have experienced everything from PPE shortages, COVID-19 deniers, and dishonest patients in the past few months. Join us today to get an inside look on how COVID-19 has changed the lives of healthcare workers. (Especially insightful for people like us, who have been comfortably WFH this whole time!) Follow us on insta!
Before some of us are even 18 years old, we pick a major at college that determines our course load for the next 4 years. The classes we take and our halfway-complete degree lands us some internships that we accept to “gain experience” (aka slap some big names on our resume). Our internship experience kick-starts our professional adult career, often in the same path that we’ve been on since we were a teenager.For many of us, our 18-year old selves had a good enough guess of our skills and passions. For many of us, our 18-year old selves had no idea what we were doing.Today, Tiffany (@skin_unfiltered) shares how she, a risk-averse accountant, quit her job at a Big 4 company to pursue her dreams of becoming an esthetician. Catch our episode to hear some skincare tips, our rant about Silicon Valley “clout”, and behind-the-scenes tea of being a SKINfluencer!
Catch up with us in today’s episode where we chat about small things that have been sparking joy for us lately! Grocery shopping tips and our thoughts on Twitch are an added plus 😉If you want to check Crystal out on Twitch: twitch.tv/crystalj
CW: We discuss heavy topics such as sexual harassment, sexual assault, and r*pe culture in this episode.If you live in California, or are a big fan of video games, you may have seen the resurgence of the Me Too movement where many brave women are coming forward to share their story of sexual assault. Many of these women were assaulted by famous video game content creators, but many were made victims by their own friends and peers.While it is painful to hear accounts of sexual assault, we believe it’s imperative to examine what perpetuates this behavior. In American media, we often see misogynstic values or gender stereotypes that normalize predatory behavior towards women. And as consumers of American media, it can often be difficult not to internalize these thoughts in ourselves as well.Today we tackle what we call “rape culture”, or societal attitudes towards gender and sexuality that increases the prevalence of rape.
If you’ve ever stumbled upon Cat & Cat comics on Instagram, you’ve probably spent half an afternoon reading the stories of cute cats with BIG personalities. But don’t let the furry little things fool you - behind the round, wholesome art style belies life lessons and emotional healing that you didn’t even know you needed!Today we are super excited to feature the mastermind behind the beloved Cat & Cat comics - illustrator Susie Yi channels her passions for social justice and mental health awareness through her art, featuring her own pets and incorporating whimsical elements as well. As a self-taught illustrator with over 280k fans on Instagram, Susie shares with us her journey from pre-med @Harvard to CS @UChicago to the world of freelance art. Tune in to catch our discussion on the obligation to social justice for an artist and whether you can celebrate someone’s art if they’re a shitty person.Check out Susie's comics:@catandcatcomics @peacefulpanels
As a young, fresh new grad straight out of college, starting your first adult job can feel like a strange experience. When the unfamiliarity and self-doubt persists, it can manifest in Impostor Syndrome, which is the thought that you are undeserving or incompetent, and thus a “fraud” or “impostor”. Whether these feelings come from something you can’t control, something that comes with time, or something that should be changed, we walk through our personal experiences with Impostor Syndrome and how we fight it (or at least, try to).
The Asian-American community has often been criticized for staying quiet. Not only is this visible in our low political engagement or silence in the face of flagrant social problems, our complicity (inadvertent or not) is also quite strikingly symbolized in Officer Tou Thao’s complicity in the murder of George Floyd. While this movement has motivated a lot of Asian-Americans to take action, the various methods of support have received some criticism, including call-outs of performative allyship and stealing the spotlight from the black community. Today we discuss the different forms of support we’ve seen in our community, share thoughts on what it takes to become a better ally, and navigate how to turn our support into long-term, sustainable allyship. Here are some resources that we found helpful: A masterlist of petitions, funds, political info, and educational material: https://tinyurl.com/y9pd7mrp(Credit: @minstantramen)Compilation of translations for letters on anti-blackness: https://lettersforblacklives.com/Documentaries on black history available on Netflix: https://www.instagram.com/p/CA3aXaDlnmk/Just Mercy film is free for June: https://www.justmercyfilm.com/
On May 25, 2020, George Floyd was murdered by a white cop as an Asian-American officer and two others stood by without intervening. This is not an isolated incident - this is just one example of how the American justice system has failed the black community time and time again. To us, the Asian-American officer who stood by watching, is also a symbol. Anti-blackness has been rampant in the Asian-American community for a long time. We want to help change that. Through one uncomfortable conversation at a time, including a conversation with ourselves to reflect on our own racial bias, we believe that as non-black POC, we have the responsibility to help change the world for our black brothers and sisters. The purpose of this episode is to share our efforts in being a good ally. For us, that starts with calling out racism in ourselves and working on unlearning our own racial bias. We also share our experiences on navigating uncomfortable conversations about racism with our family members and our friends, and hope it can encourage anyone in similar situations to start these conversations as well. Here are some resources that we found helpful: A masterlist of petitions, funds, political info, and educational material: https://tinyurl.com/y9pd7mrp (Credit: @minstantramen) Compilation of translations for letters on anti-blackness: https://lettersforblacklives.com/ Documentaries on black history available on Netflix: https://www.instagram.com/p/CA3aXaDlnmk/Just Mercy film is free for June: https://www.justmercyfilm.com/
Asian parents don’t seem to give their kids the “sex talk” like typical parents in American movies. In fact, the entire topic of sex (and even dating) can be taboo, with the exception of very vague advice or discouragement. So where does that leave us? Today we discuss the Asian-American version of a “sex talk” and explore how our parents’ relationship impacts our understanding of love. Follow Eat Your Crust
Whether you just started playing Animal Crossing three weeks ago, or you’re a seasoned veteran with more hours of play time than dollars in your bank account, you’re still a gamer in our eyes!Today we chat about the thought process behind game development, the different types of gamers, and morality/inclusivity in the gaming industry.Follow Destin on Twitter @dustythesnowman Instagram @dustythesnowmanFollow Eat Your Crust
It’s Eat Your Crust’s first birthday, and...our 50th episode!! Come celebrate with us in this Happy Hour Q&A where we share our podcast back story, our most emotional moments during quarantine, and our love languages.Thank you to everyone who submitted questions!!Follow Eat Your Crust
Calling all K-Pop fans and music lovers to the stand! We brought on two of our resident K-Pop experts to discuss stan culture, the different expectations of artists in Korea, and what going “mainstream” REALLY means in the US. Also, exciting announcement - next week will be Eat Your Crust’s 50th episode (and unofficial 1 year anniversary)!!! To celebrate, we’re popping the champagne, cutting the cake, and asking YOU for some questions! If you'd like to send a question anonymously, click here and we will answer it on our upcoming episode. You can also shoot us a DM on IG
After listening to this episode, you will lose all preconceptions you had about adoption. This week’s guest grew up as a Chinese-American adoptee in Minnesota, had KBBQ for the first time in college (!!!), and wouldn’t trade her wacky adoptive family for the world. Join us for a heartwarming and hilarious talk on adoption and good parenting! Follow Eve @eve_crabbe96 Follow Eat Your Crust Pod
Behind every great artist is an even greater A&R team ;-) As a lifelong musician himself, Drew Phomvongsa has worked shoulder to shoulder with artists like Alexander Lewis and Manila Killa to help shape and develop their sound. In today’s episode, Drew shares what it’s like to be an insider in the music industry, how he got his foot in the door (hint: savvy networking, lots of courage, and parties!!), and his thoughts on Asian-American artists committing cultural appropriation. Follow Drew @drewurl Follow Eat Your Crust
Quarantine and social distancing means your best friends are me, myself, and I. Is being alone with your thoughts for 30 days in a row terrifying? Maybe. But these plan-free weekends are the perfect opportunity to explore new avenues of growth and practice constructive self-care! Hop along for the ride as we talk about our self-care practices, FOMO, and less talked-about types of self-improvement! Follow Eat Your Crust Pod
Your favorite series strikes again!!! This week we spill some juicy secrets about thirst-trapping, dating close friends (or complete strangers!), and handling emotional conversations about racism/sexism with your boo. Tune in to find out whether sex comes before hand-holding in our ideal relationship timeline! Follow Jane @jane_e_kim Visit Jane at janeekim.com Follow Gina @diskqmusic Visit Gina at soundcloud.com/diskq Follow Eat Your Crust Pod
Did you relate more to Antman than you did to Crazy Rich Asians? Ever feel like Joy Luck Club didn’t represent your Asian-American identity? Today we bring on up-and-coming filmmaker Grace Kim to discuss the creative pressure to “represent” the community, her journey into film, and the intersectional struggles she faced along the way. As finalist for the Horizon award at the 2020 Sundance Film Festival and a Viacom Viewfinder Program fellow, Grace is quite an exciting character to follow - keep an eye out for her upcoming projects Heart Tick Kaboom and Fissura! Follow Grace @gracekime Visit Grace at gracekime.com Follow Eat Your Crust Pod
It’s Day 8 since the governor of California announced mandatory shelter-in-place. We no longer have to commute to work, but in place we have back pain, carpal tunnel, and this insatiable urge to snack?! This week, we discuss our personal best (and most toxic) WFH practices and share what it’s like to be in lockdown with your family or your boo! Follow Eat Your Crust Pod
A devout Christian, an ex-Christian, and a religious explorer walk into a bar. And they record a podcast episode! On this episode, we explore our personal journeys with Christianity/religion, discuss why so many Asian-Americans are Christian, and share the unique challenges (and perks!) of being religious in the modern day. Follow Hairol @hairol.ma Follow Resonate Fremont @resonatefremont Follow Eat Your Crust Pod
It’s been impossible to have a conversation in the past few weeks without the word Coronavirus - and rightfully so, COVID-19 has been causing panic (and mass TP shortages) worldwide with its high contagion factor. Today we discuss the social impact of the fast-spreading virus. What’s worse, the fear-mongering on social media, the lack of adequate government response, or the rampant increase in xenophobic incidents?
What the hell does being white-washed even mean?! Today we dive deep into what makes someone seem “white-washed”, our personal journeys on accepting our cultural identity, and the social phenomenon of WMAF (White Male Asian Female) couples.
Another party episode! This week we reminisce about our college partying days with two of our biggest party animal friends, disclosing our thoughts party etiquette, sharing our favorite drinking essentials, and exploring why Asian-Americans love raves so damn much. Tune in to find out how to party smart (and be a good guest, to boot!)
Toxicity is a monster that manifests in many forms (and, unfortunately, isn't as hot or catchy as Britney Spears circa 2003). Whether it manifests in incompatible friendships, unhealthy cultural values, or pure self-sabotage, toxicity is always both a pain point and an opportunity for growth. In this episode, we get up close and vulnerable to explore the idea of toxicity in our friendships and ourselves. This week's guest, Natalie, actually opens up about her tumultuous 14 year friendship with Jeesoo and we reflect on how friendships can evolve, change, and adapt as we grow.Follow Natalie's Shiba Inu on Instagram @dangotheadorable Follow Natalie's Pomeranian on Instagram @cupofmaruchan Thanks Tiffany (IG @skin_unfiltered) for the topic suggestion! :)
There’s a balance between not working hard enough and working too hard. There’s also a balance between carefully making an informed decision, and being cripplingly risk-averse. In the start-up space, balance is crucial. This week we invite Michelle, CEO of startup Tinctorium Bio, to chat about how she finds balance in her life and explore how she took the leap of faith into co-founding a start-up. Michelle and her co-founder Tammy seek to provide a sustainable alternative to the harmful (and pollutant!) indigo dye in denim. Tinctorium Bio has been featured in global publications such as Newsweek and BBC and is an industry-leading start-up to keep an eye out for! Follow Tinctorium Bio on Instagram @tinctoriumbio Follow Eat Your Crust
Here’s the Gen Z daily routine: Wake up and immediately tweet about your dream. Work out by learning (or struggling to learn) TikTok dances. Fall asleep to the sweet sound of a Twitch streamer’s maniacal clicking. NAH, we’re just kidding. But we did bring on our resident Gen Z expert, Yane, to discuss the evolution of mainstream media, especially the rise of streaming culture and the mystifying success of bathwater-selling e-girls!Follow Yane on Instagram @yanedere_Follow Yane on Twitch @yanedereFollow Yane on Twitter @yanedere_Follow Eat Your Crust
Behind the 10 second Tasty videos that filled your Facebook news feed, and the Making It Big series on YouTube that you always end up clicking (a 100-egg omelette? whaaaat?!), there are dreams of a young Asian-American boy who defied traditional expectations to achieve his dream. There’s countless all-nighters in a dark dorm room, slaving over every split-second edit of the clips. Oh, and there’s a borrowed DSLR that kick-started his whole career, too :)This week we are excited to have Alvin Zhou from Tasty to talk about his unconventional journey to Making It Big!Follow Alvin @alvinzhoupwnsFollow Gary @garyxujwFollow Tasty @buzzfeedtastyFollow Eat Your Crust
Your favorite podcast Eat Your Crust is back for SEASON 2!!! 2019 was a crazy year for your hosts Crystal and Jeesoo - it was a year full of transition, growth, and balance. Juggling our first full-time jobs with having a social life, running our podcast, and getting enough sleep has been a wild adventure but we wouldn’t have traded it for the world. Let us brighten up your commute as we reflect on our 2019, laugh about some of our most memorable episodes, and give a sneak peek into the amazing things we have planned for 2020!Bring on the new decade!!!
How come it seems like everyone else in the world is totally comfortable meeting and talking to complete strangers? For Crystal and I, it takes a few pep talks, a close friend, or social lubricant (cough cough alcohol) before we feel more confident in unfamiliar social situations. Hopefully it’s not just us! Follow us along on our throwback to our antisocial freshman days to our journey in managing our shyness 🙂
Paying for insurance, cooking meals for yourself, and budgeting... WTF?! Starting to feel a little scammed, we definitely thought adulting meant you just had to go to work instead of school. Today we talk about our clumsy navigation through the world of adulting - with or without our parents!
Fulfilling your Asian tiger mom's fantasies of becoming a doctor ain't easy - especially when you need a 4.0, tons of volunteer experience, a perfect MCAT score, and flawless essays that paint you as a unique, intelligent applicant. Or maybe...you just need a brilliant girlfriend to keep you on track during the whole process?! Today we dive into the path of prepping for and getting into med school!
The ultimate Asian-American trap: your parents force you to learn piano for 8 years, but act surprised when you pursue music as a career 🤔 Today we bring on Kyle (aka Son of Paper) to discuss the journey of becoming a full-time rapper as an Asian-American! Follow him on instagram: @sonofpaper
Quitting your first job requires (a) courage to "break up" with your manager; (b) stamina to schedule in job-hunting time into your already busy week; (c) stealth and creativity to attend interviews during your workweek. Tune in to hear how we quit our first full-time jobs (and more importantly, the struggle to land our second full-time jobs)!
Traveling alone may seem daunting, but there’s tons of perks - you can perfectly curate your schedule, save money on lodging, and fully immerse in the moment without any inhibitions. Join us as we invite our friend who solo traveled for two months (!!) and had some magical movie moments along the way.
Subtle Asian Traits has taken over our Facebook newsfeeds ever since its boom in popularity last year. Today, it’s almost an empire, serving as one of the biggest sources of Asian-American memes, subculture groups, and...dating profiles???Today we brought on a couple who met and fell in love through Subtle Asian Dating (yes, it really can happen) - and their story makes you want to believe in love again :’)
It’s spooky season! In the spirit (ha ha) of Halloween, we share our supernatural experiences and stories of living in haunted houses.
Ever wanted to earn 6 figures straight out of college? AKA, ever wondered what it’s like to be a software engineer? Explore a FAANG (the CS Big Five!) Software Engineer’s journey from school, to his first internship, to his first full-time job! His interview/resume tips and thoughts on the classic engineer stereotypes are a bonus ;)Special Notes:HackerRankLeetCodeCracking the Coding InterviewIntern SupplyGlassDoorr/CSCareerQuestions
As Asian Americans, we find that it is sometimes difficult to express ourselves. Are we too Asian or are we too American? One thing's for sure - Asians have gained more visibility in popular culture and media in the past few years. Asian American identity has become stronger and we are beginning to create our own niche of style and beauty. Listen in on our conversation about recognizing our differences, learning to love ourselves, and growing comfortable in our own skin.
Gone is the era of long romantic courtship - hello, dating apps! Today we brought on our two most SINGLE friends to get the tea on dating apps, first date dos and don’ts, and the Friend Zone.
Ever drive by your old neighborhood and creepily stare at your childhood home? We definitely do! Take a trip down memory lane with us as we talk about our favorite childhood memories that shaped our current personalities. Hear about Crystal’s first time back in her hometown in 13 years and Jeesoo’s precious memories of her bustling childhood home. You can also listen to us cry about showering in cold water for 3 months in our ratchet apartment in college!Follow us
There’s three paths you can take after graduation - jumping straight into employment, extending your education through grad school, or… living on a farm?! Today we talk about how to know if you should go to grad school and how to keep your head in the game while preparing for graduate school entrance exams.
During college, all we wanted was to graduate. But now that we’ve been out of college for a year and a half, the excitement of the post-grad life is fading and the realities of adulthood are settling in. Today we share our very own POST-GRAD SURVIVAL GUIDE: how to ace job interviews, manage your time, and stay healthy as a new grad.
Long Distance Relationships have a bad rap. Some people even have personal rules against LDRs and consider them to be the equivalent of a breakup. But we’re here to defend them - LDRs are underrated! Everyone go get yourself an LDR.
Every friend group has the responsible one, the flaky one, and the one who is ALWAYS down to do stuff. Our friend group is no different :)
We brought on Jeesoo’s “roommate” and Crystal’s “special friend” for a discussion on our personal relationship dos and don’ts!
Sorry in advance for some of the hiccups in the audio quality - we tried recording an online call for this week! Thanks for listening and supporting :) When friendship is long distance, it can be hard to be up to date with their lives. Today we catch up with our friend about pillows, East Coast Asians, and how our childhood/siblings affect the number of kids we want.P.S. Rock pillows are a thing!
Aaaand we’re back with your favorite series…. #GIRLTALK! Today we chat about what dating has taught us - whether it’s learning about our personal needs as a girlfriend or discovering our clinginess levels, we’ve become better people thanks to the relationships we’ve experienced along the way. So here’s to our exes (thank u, next), our boyfriends, and undiscovered love that awaits us in the future!
By some chance, we aced our interview and got accepted into an on-campus job in college. We tried to learn as much as we could through our mentors, made our first co-worker friends, and learned to juggle studying (and partying) with 8am shifts. And because of these student jobs, we became much more prepared for our first post-grad jobs!Today we talk about our first job struggles and professional tips we picked up while at Taco Bell, DocuSign, supply chain shipping centers, and even university call centers.
Amidst the noise of everyday life, we are always striving to improve ourselves - whether it’s spending less money, learning guitar, or getting better at Fortnite ;) Join us as we talk about our biggest goal successes and failures, from the most serious goals to some silly ones!*NOTES*12:10 The Life Changing Magic of Tidying Up - shoutout to Jeesoo’s friend Yane for recommending this book and changing her life!!!25:50 SMART Goals are a great way of ensuring your goals are realistic and achievable!28:33 OKRs - Objectives & Key Results: a way of planning objectives at work30:03 - Trello is a tool Jeesoo uses to organize priorities/completed tasks at work; Daniel also uses this for day-to-day errands30:40 - Microsoft OneNote is the notebook tool Daniel uses to keep track of completed assignments at his work
This past year has been amazing for Asian American representation in mainstream media. With awesome recent news (congrats to Simu Liu for getting a lead role for the first Asian Marvel super hero!) and some great high profile movies, this is only the beginning for us.This week we chat about Crazy Rich Asians, To All The Boys I’ve Loved Before, and Always Be My Maybe.*NOTES*2:44 Lucy Liu who was one of the most prominent Asian Americans in mainstream media around the 90s and early 2000s. Greatly known for her role in Charlie's Angels.2:45 Sandra Oh was another prominent Asian Canadian(!) who grew popular from various movies and shows. One of her biggest ones of the 2000s you may know is Grey's Anatomy!10:30 Singapore's demographic breakdown: 74.3% Chinese, 13.4% Malaysian, 9.1% Indian (including Sri Lankan), 3.2% other. Malays are recognized as the indigenous people of Singapore.
Our parents are superheroes. One morning, after long deliberation, they decided they wanted a better life for their families and packed their bags, trading in their comfortable lives for challenging ones. They conquered the difficulty of an unfamiliar language, navigated the brand new culture, and explored countless communities to fit into the new country. They left behind their parents, their loved ones, their closest friends. They are immigrants, and they are our everyday inspirations. Today we dive deep into our parents’ immigration journeys, and discuss our experiences growing up with immigrant parents - from everything to being embarrassed about their broken English, to learning to express love through every way except saying the L word.*NOTES*12:00 Sponsorship, ok Crystal clarified with her mom: a sponsor was needed if you were going to school in the new country and needed a student visa (Crystal's parents were enrolling in Canadian university to get their Canadian master degrees). The sponsor would sign with the intent/proof that they could pay for the education. If the person coming to study in the new country already has enough money/proof that they can pay for the education, then they would not require a sponsor for their student visa.American student visa rules , Canadian student visa rules27:22 Pork Floss51:18 Mission Peak is referring to a 6 mile hike in Fremont, popular for the totem pole and beautiful view at the top. Parts of it are super steep and the trail has 0 shade - which is why Tanaya and Jeesoo are so astonished.
We've made it to episode 10! A perfect excuse to go out and celebrate (':Join us today on our very special episode, where we chat about going out, fantasize about our ideal night out, and share tips about how to avoid peer pressure, pace yourself through the night, and fit in when you’re a lightweight.Just a warning - in all of our vacay-happiness and bliss of hitting the big 10, this episode contains a lot of ratchet stories and way more cussing than usual. (Sorry!)*NOTES*04:45 “yak and rally” is basically a college student’s favorite strategy, this is the ability to throw up when you’re too drunk but still get back to the party and drink even more 😎06:20 “T” - we are referring to alcohol tolerance, AKA how much you can drink before dying.10:15 Amy’s favorite chase: Guava Juice, particularly the Kern's brand.11:05 Jeesoo’s favorite chase: Cactus Cooler, orange-flavored soda that’s mostly sold in SoCal.11:35 Crystal’s favorite alcohol: Makgeolli, Korean rice wine that’s milky and sweet. 12:18 Gaam is a Korean lounge in K-Town LA that we like to frequent when we’re in the area.29:20 Baseball is a drinking game that combines beer pong and flip cup with the standard baseball rules.32:20 White Claw is an alcoholic Seltzer water45:20 BCD Tofu House, Sun Nong Dan45:25 Carne Asada Fries/Christian Fries from Vallartas
When you’re growing up, family friend parties are a major part of weekends - especially the huge holiday dinners where everyone brings a special dish, kids are forced to play piano, and parents brag about their kids’ most recent achievements. Family friends are also the people your parents always seem to compare you to, especially that damn John kid who quadruple-majored at Harvard and invented the cure to cancer. Join us today where we talk about family friend dinners, being compared to other kids, and getting drunk at holiday parties.Visit us at eatyourcrust.com for special content.Reach out to us
Most newly working adults could probably relate - after the fluttering unfamiliarity of your first adult job dissipates, your 9-6 work schedule (how is that even legal anyways?!) with your 2-3 hour commute (which is terrible for your back) leaves you with no energy to do anything else except scroll through social media for 3 hours on your couch until you finally drag yourself to go shower. Trying to fit in all of your errands and housework on the weekends is easy enough, until you realize you need to leave time to hang out with your friends, hit the gym, maintain some hobbies. Is it just us, or does it feel impossible to do ALL of this and be as creative and adventurous as we were in college?Long ass intro aside, we want to let you know that - SAME. We feel you. Today we discuss how we keep our brains fresh and our hearts passionate as modern day working adults. Visit us at eatyourcrust.com for special content.Reach out to us
Whether you’re the party animal, or the homebody, we’re right there with ya! An extravert, an introvert, and an ambivert battle it out on today’s episode where we explore how our personality affects our daily life.Here's the website with the questions we used!Note: Apparently extravert is not spelled "extrovert" according to this article.Visit us at eatyourcrust.com for special content.Reach out to us
If taking care of your mental health wasn’t hard enough, fighting the stigma of therapy is another layer of stress that many Asian-Americans can relate to. Today we open up to each other about our personal journeys with mental health. Content Warning: We will be discussing sensitive topics such as mental illness, therapy, and various manifestations of anxiety (OCD/ED/GAD).Visit us at eatyourcrust.com for special content.Reach out to us
Red flags aren’t always easy to spot, especially when you’re blinded by love. Join us four girls for our first ever #GIRLTALK where we talk about qualities we look for in men, red flags to watch out for, and what to do when a friend is in a toxic relationship.Let us know if you like this episode so we can do more!Visit us at eatyourcrust.com for special content.Reach out to us
Find My Friends, Facebook ads, spam calls… They’re always watching you! Today we talk about how to find that perfect sweet spot between technology and privacy (if it even exists).*NOTES*16:13 “websites where you type in your name and address comes up” - Spokeo is one of the more well-known sites that store such information. 18:55 Facebook scandal is referring to what started with the Cambridge Analytica scandal, and has grown into a whole debacle over what companies can and can't do (and what they actually are doing) with our individual information. Now Facebook is tied up in various controversies and more scandals, honestly we can barely keep up now too.32:55 "use that voice" meaning the spam callers record your voice on the phone.37:25 If you want to see the videos of people hacking the spam callers' computers,YouTuber Kitboga has a collection of spam caller revenge videos.38:35 "receiving a gift card from spam callers" was remembered slightly wrong here; what happened was people would use the scam caller's tactics right back at them. Kitboga once again has an example of this.44:20 "deep fakes" are referring to convincingly doctored videos/images/audio using artificial intelligence (and often, an NVIDIA graphics card).
Our generation basically grew up as the Internet did too. Was the Internet your first friend? Did you grow up addicted, or deprived? And now, as adults, how do you utilize your social media?This week we explore how we grew up with (un)limited internet access. We also chat about instas, finstas, baby instas, and ads in social media. Visit us at eatyourcrust.com for special content or reach out to us
It's time to move out from your parents' home and be independent! Or maybe not... And how do you make a house a home anyway?This week we chat about navigating our post-grad lives in different living situations: with parents, with a roommate, or just all by your lonesome.*NOTES*2:06 "ST" is referring to a family-owned mexican restaurant in the town we live in. One of our favorite spots to grab a cheap and delicious super burrito.2:05 &various "2K" we are referring to the wildly popular basketball game NBA 2k19. Visit us at eatyourcrust.com or reach out to us
F is for friends who do stuff together...jk, it’s for friends who are comfortable doing nothing together. On this week's episode we discuss what it means to be a good friend, what to expect from friends, and how your relationship status affects your friendships.Feel free to visit us at eatyourcrust.com or reach out to us
